"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A married woman said to me to come to her house and introduce me to her husband and daughter.How did this happen? Well I met her at a party thru friends. Bla bla bla, long story short, I sent her a txt days after the party "hey you live nearby, right? Lets grab lunch"

So she sent me back a long msg, but basically it's "You should come over meet my husband and daughter."

This kind of throw me off as women dont typically openly invite a man to her house, especially one she just met for a few hours at a party.

Thoughts and concerns?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dear Sharkbeat,
She is just pouring cold water on you...letting you know she is married with a kid,possibly even trying to shame you.
 
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Ok good. I responded to her basically ignoring that part of her text. "Oh great, bla bla bla. So tuesday next week good for you? What's a good restaurant in your neighborhood?"

To which she replied, "oh I've been busy these weeks. [taking about her plans]"
Me: "ok. have fun"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The last time I saw someone playing a game like that was during usa 94 when brazil won the world cup.

1)could be to make her husband jelous because of an other contender

2)Get attention from two different men

3)Hubby is bi and she wants to fulfill his desire

4)Try to shame you so she has something to talk about with her friends
 
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Dear Strelok,
Quite so.....However we slice this,it is bad news for Sharkbeat.
 
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