"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A married woman said to me to come to her house and introduce me to her husband and daughter.How did this happen? Well I met her at a party thru friends. Bla bla bla, long story short, I sent her a txt days after the party "hey you live nearby, right? Lets grab lunch"

So she sent me back a long msg, but basically it's "You should come over meet my husband and daughter."

This kind of throw me off as women dont typically openly invite a man to her house, especially one she just met for a few hours at a party.

Thoughts and concerns?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dear Sharkbeat,
She is just pouring cold water on you...letting you know she is married with a kid,possibly even trying to shame you.
 
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Ok good. I responded to her basically ignoring that part of her text. "Oh great, bla bla bla. So tuesday next week good for you? What's a good restaurant in your neighborhood?"

To which she replied, "oh I've been busy these weeks. [taking about her plans]"
Me: "ok. have fun"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The last time I saw someone playing a game like that was during usa 94 when brazil won the world cup.

1)could be to make her husband jelous because of an other contender

2)Get attention from two different men

3)Hubby is bi and she wants to fulfill his desire

4)Try to shame you so she has something to talk about with her friends
 
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Dear Strelok,
Quite so.....However we slice this,it is bad news for Sharkbeat.
 
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