married woman invitation

[sharkbeat]

A married woman said to me to come to her house and introduce me to her husband and daughter.How did this happen? Well I met her at a party thru friends. Bla bla bla, long story short, I sent her a txt days after the party "hey you live nearby, right? Lets grab lunch"

So she sent me back a long msg, but basically it's "You should come over meet my husband and daughter."

This kind of throw me off as women dont typically openly invite a man to her house, especially one she just met for a few hours at a party.

Thoughts and concerns?

 

[Boilermaker]

don't go.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Sharkbeat,
She is just pouring cold water on you...letting you know she is married with a kid,possibly even trying to shame you.

 

[JxcelDolghmQ]

The only winning move is not to play.

 

[sharkbeat]

Ok good. I responded to her basically ignoring that part of her text. "Oh great, bla bla bla. So tuesday next week good for you? What's a good restaurant in your neighborhood?"

To which she replied, "oh I've been busy these weeks. [taking about her plans]"
Me: "ok. have fun"

 

[Strelok]

The last time I saw someone playing a game like that was during usa 94 when brazil won the world cup.

1)could be to make her husband jelous because of an other contender

2)Get attention from two different men

3)Hubby is bi and she wants to fulfill his desire

4)Try to shame you so she has something to talk about with her friends

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Strelok,
Quite so.....However we slice this,it is bad news for Sharkbeat.