"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sharkbeat

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A married woman said to me to come to her house and introduce me to her husband and daughter.How did this happen? Well I met her at a party thru friends. Bla bla bla, long story short, I sent her a txt days after the party "hey you live nearby, right? Lets grab lunch"

So she sent me back a long msg, but basically it's "You should come over meet my husband and daughter."

This kind of throw me off as women dont typically openly invite a man to her house, especially one she just met for a few hours at a party.

Thoughts and concerns?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Scaramouche

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Dear Sharkbeat,
She is just pouring cold water on you...letting you know she is married with a kid,possibly even trying to shame you.
 

sharkbeat

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Ok good. I responded to her basically ignoring that part of her text. "Oh great, bla bla bla. So tuesday next week good for you? What's a good restaurant in your neighborhood?"

To which she replied, "oh I've been busy these weeks. [taking about her plans]"
Me: "ok. have fun"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The last time I saw someone playing a game like that was during usa 94 when brazil won the world cup.

1)could be to make her husband jelous because of an other contender

2)Get attention from two different men

3)Hubby is bi and she wants to fulfill his desire

4)Try to shame you so she has something to talk about with her friends
 

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Dear Strelok,
Quite so.....However we slice this,it is bad news for Sharkbeat.
 
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