"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Marriage = wellbeing
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
This man says
1) Faith
2) Family
3) Friends
4) Work
is what makes a human being happy.
I think you could have 1, but if you're born with a toxic family,you could not have 2, and you've to build it yourself...
So you're starting off with an handicap.
Then, friends, you can chose them, and work too.
The real thing is that you really need the 1and3 to be your 2, when your 2 exist and it's so toxic.
One very important thing, is that He mention that a married man is really happier, than others.
I could believe that, because for any man who was married, and gone trought the thing, he knows how it felt.
He was in the bluepill, in that sort of feeling that if lasted a lifetime, would really made him so happy.
But since he now had a brealup, and experience on that, the man now value more being "alone" that trying again.
I do think there is trutht on saying that marriage can bring happines, because it makes the man "love" everyday, no matter what.
Men need challenges and a marriage is one of them.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
That's probably not the right way to think about it.
Nobody really "finds" a woman like that.
It just happens naturally so long as:
- You've got a genuinely decent personality
- You've got genuine social intelligence
- You come from a decent background with a decent upbringing
- You've got a strong social group
- You've got decent morals and a sense of ambition
- You meet people mostly through your long built social circle
- You and your future spouse share a lot of similar goals and ambitions
Most people were like this in the past.
Not a lot of people are like this today.
Hence the destruction of healthy relationships.
You can make up for lacking any of the above with "game."