Bokanovsky
Master Don Juan
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It's not. Backbreaker is not a real person; it's just an internet persona. Anyone who's read a half dozen of his posts would realize this....this cant be real...
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
It's not. Backbreaker is not a real person; it's just an internet persona. Anyone who's read a half dozen of his posts would realize this....this cant be real...
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
A Jewish girl named Maria from a small town in Mississippi. You have a higher chance of meeting a black guy named Ivan from Siberia...Right, you just came here to share your romantic story. That's what Sosuave is all about! "Tell me more, tell me more, did ya get very far..."
And she's proofreading your posts you say? Come on, whoever this is. The jig is up.
By the way - and everyone take note and check me on this - I live in NYC, and I have never, ever met a Jewish woman named "Maria." It's Miriam. Not saying it's impossible, but think about it.
Aren’t you married Zek ?If this is a troll, it's a good one.
This is another warning against getting married: This is just the sort of thing the woman usually does. 12 years together, the original hormones wear off, things aren't a novelty anymore, life goes on, things get routine....
Then one day, she meets a guy who sweeps her off her feet. The new guy is hot and exciting and makes her feel things she hasn't felt in over a decade. She didn't even know she could still feel this way until this new guy showed her. She still loves her husband, but she can't help it, no one makes her feel like this new guy. It isn't even anybody's fault, because "it just happened". Just like the swinging "just happened".
This can happen to anyone, you can't predict it. That's why it's just too risky to get married these days.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Nope, cohabitate.Aren’t you married Zek ?
I live with my girlfriend. In a non-common law state.What does that mean?
Smart. Any tips on dodging marriage in an LTR.Nope, cohabitate.
Not really. I think I'm just fortunate in that my girlfriend understands my take on the subject. She's refreshingly mellow for a chick. I know most women probably have that "If you want it, you better put a ring on it" attitude.Smart. Any tips on dodging marriage in an LTR.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Yeah, don't ask her to marry you.Smart. Any tips on dodging marriage in an LTR.
There's some truth in that. If her priority is being with you, she will be. If her priority is to get the marriage, she'll likely move on.if she really loves you, she wont require marriage.
6 years on my birthday and she's pregnant with our third child.I know this thread is old but after the "alleged" orgy you had with your wife I seriously don't see your marriage lasting long
Make no mistake your wife is probably getting some side action too
6 years on my birthday and she's pregnant with our third child.
backbreaker got dem swimmiers for yo azz lol
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
wait, so you went from leaving your wife to bang some mistress on a dirty mattress in an alley to getting your wife pregnant and going back to her, all in the span of what, like a month or two? Are you sure you're ok? I mean, you realize that this is seriously flighty behavior right?def mine. was planned. will get paternity test still just becuase I did it with Joe and Chanel.
hoping for a boy. Chanel is a ****ing diva lol. i don't.. i mean i love my daughter but really would prefer a boy