"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Margot Robbie 'Mid Without Makeup' Post Sparks Furious Backlash

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A debate about how beautiful Margot Robbie is has caused an online stir.


Millions have become embroiled in the discussion after some Twitter users agreed that Australian actress and Academy Award nominee Robbie is only "mid" attractive. "Mid" is a slang term, often used in a derogatory way, to suggest something or someone is average or below.

Robbie has been trending recently as she promotes the upcoming Barbie movie, co-starring Ryan Gosling. She's been seen wearing various colorful outfits walking the pink carpets at Barbiepremiere events, often garnering wildly positive reactions from social media users.

However, Twitter user @NicholasVerola became the subject of derision for his take in a tweet that has been viewed 53 million times. Sharing a picture of Robbie supposedly without makeup, he shared his unpopular opinion. "This is [Margot Robbie] without makeup. Definitely mid," he said.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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My thoughts are that threads about celebrities belong in the AE forum subsection and not spamming the main DJ section, as they don’t have Any relevance to most men here.
Moved
 

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Seems it caused some disappointment among the male audience. Don't worry you guys I'll take one for the team, I'll **** her.
 
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She's mid by Scottsdale standards even with makeup. Deer eyes and a flat chest. She's attractive but no Barbie.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Seems it caused some disappointment among the male audience. Don't worry you guys I'll take one for the team, I'll **** her.
If you can't make it..dang it..then i MUST do this for the team...reluctantly.


Seriously tho: being a model isnt about what you look like, but what you CAN look like.

I have to say its sobering to see her like that...she suddenly looks like every other woman you'll see on a daily base .but as i said before , its a matter of luck, timing ect. Cheeks ,height, facial features ect. Its more nuanced then it seems but still, as always we get sold an ILLUSION. And now MFs are mad because that woman is actually...human. wow.
 

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I have to say its sobering to see her like that...she suddenly looks like every other woman you'll see on a daily base
I mean really, she's 33. Far from over the hill but probably past the wall for those who buy into most of this manosphere stuff.
She looks like she might be a little freakishly thin in the face, but she probably has to keep her body fat % low.

She's clearly an attractive woman, she's never been my particular cup of tea, but I'm not going to say she's unattractive.
The main thing is, it's a picture. It could just be a bad picture. A good picture can be like good makeup. And a bad picture will look bad, it doesn't matter what she looks like in real life. Or maybe this is what she looks like at her worst. Who cares?
Virtually all women wear makeup, and they usually look better for it, as long as they don't get out of hand with it.
 

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I mean really, she's 33. Far from over the hill but probably past the wall for those who buy into most of this manosphere stuff.
At 33, Margot Robbie she has about 600 good days left to get pregnant, After that, she has another 600 OK days to get pregnant. She has been married for 7 years so she doesn’t have to worry about finding a husband.

I think the only thing the manosphere cares about is a woman’s fertility. ‘Past the wall” just means “ability to get pregnant“ for single childless men.

Imagine a 45 year old man, rich, divorced, with 4 kids. He meets a decent looking 39 year old woman who wants to go Asia with him, Would he say “no, she is past the wall?” Of course not, because he already got kids from another woman. Now imagine a 45 year old man, rich, divorced, with 0 kids. He meets a decent looking 39 year old woman who wants to go to Asia with him. He would say “past the wall” in 2 seconds.

How man behaves with a woman depends on whether he has kids and her fertility,

She's clearly an attractive woman, she's never been my particular cup of tea, but I'm not going to say she's unattractive.
The main thing is, it's a picture. It could just be a bad picture. A good picture can be like good makeup. And a bad picture will look bad, it doesn't matter what she looks like in real life. Or maybe this is what she looks like at her worst. Who cares?
Virtually all women wear makeup, and they usually look better for it, as long as they don't get out of hand with it.
I agree she is attractive and it could be a bad picture.
 

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She is elite tier for a 33 year old white woman. Face is symmetrical, good skin, very few wrinkles, nice eyes. Solid peak 9, looks 8ish now.

She also has perfect teeth and significantly above average fitness compared to other 33 year old western women.

Post some hotter make-up free women. I want to see these 10s.
 

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I think the only thing the manosphere cares about is a woman’s fertility. ‘Past the wall” just means “ability to get pregnant“ for single childless men.
You make a good point. I've always thought "the wall" referred to when women lose that youthful 18-24 year old fresh glow appearance that they have. When they hit the wall they start becoming invisible. You're right that 45 year old rich guy who wants to have a kid will be thinking about age. But I've always thought the average manosphere reader didn't really even acknowledge that women might become pregnant, they think they're basically sex toys that for their physical amusement.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You make a good point. I've always thought "the wall" referred to when women lose that youthful 18-24 year old fresh glow appearance that they have. When they hit the wall they start becoming invisible. You're right that 45 year old rich guy who wants to have a kid will be thinking about age. But I've always thought the average manosphere reader didn't really even acknowledge that women might become pregnant, they think they're basically sex toys that for their physical amusement.
How many women acknowledge that a man has no say in whether the pregnancy is carried to term?
 

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I think we may know why they didn't select someone hotter

 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I keep thinking of the song Im a Barbie girl in a barbie world, wud watch movie if margot sings it
 

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I keep thinking of the song Im a Barbie girl in a barbie world, wud watch movie if margot sings it
It's I'm a material girl in a material world lol
 

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Spoiler alert, most of these celebrities and regular woman don’t look that great without make-up. It‘s just one of the tools women have to keep up the façade. Just like push-up bras and yoga pants. Remember they have make-up artist and entire teams to tweak their looks. Funny how the social media mob loses its mind if you don’t worship their idols. Beauty is subjective. The movie has a huge feminist bent anyway. Ken is portrayed as an idiot because that’s popular these days. The original Barbie would have probably smashed G.I. Joe anyway :rofl: Surprised they didn’t pick Lizzo instead of Margot Robbie to be honest.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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