"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Margot Robbie 'Mid Without Makeup' Post Sparks Furious Backlash

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A debate about how beautiful Margot Robbie is has caused an online stir.


Millions have become embroiled in the discussion after some Twitter users agreed that Australian actress and Academy Award nominee Robbie is only "mid" attractive. "Mid" is a slang term, often used in a derogatory way, to suggest something or someone is average or below.

Robbie has been trending recently as she promotes the upcoming Barbie movie, co-starring Ryan Gosling. She's been seen wearing various colorful outfits walking the pink carpets at Barbiepremiere events, often garnering wildly positive reactions from social media users.

However, Twitter user @NicholasVerola became the subject of derision for his take in a tweet that has been viewed 53 million times. Sharing a picture of Robbie supposedly without makeup, he shared his unpopular opinion. "This is [Margot Robbie] without makeup. Definitely mid," he said.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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My thoughts are that threads about celebrities belong in the AE forum subsection and not spamming the main DJ section, as they don’t have Any relevance to most men here.
Moved
 

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Seems it caused some disappointment among the male audience. Don't worry you guys I'll take one for the team, I'll **** her.
 
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She's mid by Scottsdale standards even with makeup. Deer eyes and a flat chest. She's attractive but no Barbie.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Seems it caused some disappointment among the male audience. Don't worry you guys I'll take one for the team, I'll **** her.
If you can't make it..dang it..then i MUST do this for the team...reluctantly.


Seriously tho: being a model isnt about what you look like, but what you CAN look like.

I have to say its sobering to see her like that...she suddenly looks like every other woman you'll see on a daily base .but as i said before , its a matter of luck, timing ect. Cheeks ,height, facial features ect. Its more nuanced then it seems but still, as always we get sold an ILLUSION. And now MFs are mad because that woman is actually...human. wow.
 

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I have to say its sobering to see her like that...she suddenly looks like every other woman you'll see on a daily base
I mean really, she's 33. Far from over the hill but probably past the wall for those who buy into most of this manosphere stuff.
She looks like she might be a little freakishly thin in the face, but she probably has to keep her body fat % low.

She's clearly an attractive woman, she's never been my particular cup of tea, but I'm not going to say she's unattractive.
The main thing is, it's a picture. It could just be a bad picture. A good picture can be like good makeup. And a bad picture will look bad, it doesn't matter what she looks like in real life. Or maybe this is what she looks like at her worst. Who cares?
Virtually all women wear makeup, and they usually look better for it, as long as they don't get out of hand with it.
 

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I mean really, she's 33. Far from over the hill but probably past the wall for those who buy into most of this manosphere stuff.
At 33, Margot Robbie she has about 600 good days left to get pregnant, After that, she has another 600 OK days to get pregnant. She has been married for 7 years so she doesn’t have to worry about finding a husband.

I think the only thing the manosphere cares about is a woman’s fertility. ‘Past the wall” just means “ability to get pregnant“ for single childless men.

Imagine a 45 year old man, rich, divorced, with 4 kids. He meets a decent looking 39 year old woman who wants to go Asia with him, Would he say “no, she is past the wall?” Of course not, because he already got kids from another woman. Now imagine a 45 year old man, rich, divorced, with 0 kids. He meets a decent looking 39 year old woman who wants to go to Asia with him. He would say “past the wall” in 2 seconds.

How man behaves with a woman depends on whether he has kids and her fertility,

She's clearly an attractive woman, she's never been my particular cup of tea, but I'm not going to say she's unattractive.
The main thing is, it's a picture. It could just be a bad picture. A good picture can be like good makeup. And a bad picture will look bad, it doesn't matter what she looks like in real life. Or maybe this is what she looks like at her worst. Who cares?
Virtually all women wear makeup, and they usually look better for it, as long as they don't get out of hand with it.
I agree she is attractive and it could be a bad picture.
 

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She is elite tier for a 33 year old white woman. Face is symmetrical, good skin, very few wrinkles, nice eyes. Solid peak 9, looks 8ish now.

She also has perfect teeth and significantly above average fitness compared to other 33 year old western women.

Post some hotter make-up free women. I want to see these 10s.
 

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I think the only thing the manosphere cares about is a woman’s fertility. ‘Past the wall” just means “ability to get pregnant“ for single childless men.
You make a good point. I've always thought "the wall" referred to when women lose that youthful 18-24 year old fresh glow appearance that they have. When they hit the wall they start becoming invisible. You're right that 45 year old rich guy who wants to have a kid will be thinking about age. But I've always thought the average manosphere reader didn't really even acknowledge that women might become pregnant, they think they're basically sex toys that for their physical amusement.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You make a good point. I've always thought "the wall" referred to when women lose that youthful 18-24 year old fresh glow appearance that they have. When they hit the wall they start becoming invisible. You're right that 45 year old rich guy who wants to have a kid will be thinking about age. But I've always thought the average manosphere reader didn't really even acknowledge that women might become pregnant, they think they're basically sex toys that for their physical amusement.
How many women acknowledge that a man has no say in whether the pregnancy is carried to term?
 

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I think we may know why they didn't select someone hotter

 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I keep thinking of the song Im a Barbie girl in a barbie world, wud watch movie if margot sings it
 

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I keep thinking of the song Im a Barbie girl in a barbie world, wud watch movie if margot sings it
It's I'm a material girl in a material world lol
 

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Spoiler alert, most of these celebrities and regular woman don’t look that great without make-up. It‘s just one of the tools women have to keep up the façade. Just like push-up bras and yoga pants. Remember they have make-up artist and entire teams to tweak their looks. Funny how the social media mob loses its mind if you don’t worship their idols. Beauty is subjective. The movie has a huge feminist bent anyway. Ken is portrayed as an idiot because that’s popular these days. The original Barbie would have probably smashed G.I. Joe anyway :rofl: Surprised they didn’t pick Lizzo instead of Margot Robbie to be honest.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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