NSUballer
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HAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!! Yea im n new orleans right now for mardi gras...girls everywhere....finneeee a$$$ girls ....
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Mardi Gras New Orleans
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
nismo-4
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Most of them have boyfriends! You better be famous!
meitenesrigas
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You gotta be drunk if you are seeing "fine azz girls" in New Orleans.
MooseGod
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screw these negative bastards....drink a 40 for me while you're down there!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Tropical Isle baby!
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Don't forget about hand greandes!Guy Incognito said:
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I'm from and living in New Orleans right now and Bacchus parade passed. I'll drink a hand grenade for you too!MooseGod said:
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I loved Mardi Gras when I was there. Fat Tuesday was INSANE. I actually got my head busted when a beer bottle flew threw the air and nailed me. The best thing I got it on tape and recorded the EMTs helping me out. They wanted me to go to the ER, I told them, "screw you, its fat tuesday!!!!!"
got laid once and made out with a bunch of girls that weekend and some free breast exams with my mouth. Insane time.
got laid once and made out with a bunch of girls that weekend and some free breast exams with my mouth. Insane time.