"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Many women are single because they're boring

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They are boring and do not know how to flirt anymore. It's absurd.

I had a date with someone that has definitely been on the carousel in her time and things like that but she is just so f****** boring... I cant bring myself to be the mule that carries every interaction along, even to escalate sexually
The problem is too many men tolerate this for some poosey, of course women don't develop personalities.

Why would they need to when men will still jump through hoops for them?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Anecdotally, I found that women that have at least one brother and/or are tomboy-ish often have better personalities. They understand and can appreciate guy humor.
I agree. However, I do find it’s always a power struggle with these types of women. Many of them lack femininity and do not submit easily.
 

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Women are only exciting when they are seducing you. That's their value. So many of you either don't know this or strip them of their opportunity by being male seducers yourselves. So you end up with a mannequin.

The women who know how to use their feminine charms are never single.

Without sexual/romantic tension, there's no polarity, and no reason for men and women to even be in the same room.

If a woman doesn't approach me with a feminine/submissive seducer frame, she doesn't even register in my brain.

All of this equality crap has made you guys forget about sexual polarity and romantic tension - the force that binds men and women.

No wonder many of you are jaded and/or think women are boring. You allow women to bring you into an anti-polarized world. I would dismiss them if they weren't polarized by my presence and acting like feminine/submissive/supplicating seducers.

My job is to be dominant. And her job is to be submissive and supplicating to my presence to the point where she flirts with me in a ridiculous fashion where her friends are looking at her like "Have you lost your mind?".

That's the way nature drew it up on the chalkboard. That's the polarity that creates sexual tension. That's the lifeblood that brings men and women together and make things "exciting" and non boring.

Sexual tension. Not sense of humor, or entertainment. LOL.

Now of course, the next level beyond sexual tension is emotional connection. But this is the serendipity level that few experience so perhaps I will talk about that some other time. But so far it looks like 99% of the board rarely experience this level of romance.
Zzzzz
 

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Women can be only so far interesting
in the end she makes the babies and you the one who keep them safe, this is as far as you both can get
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Women can be only so far interesting
in the end she makes the babies and you the one who keep them safe, this is as far as you both can get
As long as kids not involved
She can be anything you want her to be
 

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I agree. However, I do find it’s always a power struggle with these types of women. Many of them lack femininity and do not submit easily.
Many wouldn't submit even on their deathbed. Every bullet point, task and priority will be. A struggle of whose in charge.
 

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I only now realize that girls dating drug dealers
I mean I knew few, but never gave it a thought

I met drug dealers, they are cowards af
And I know these girls ain't gonna end good.. but I start embrace the darkness.. someone with more info.. please PM me..
 

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This guy seems to be slayin all tha poon :rolleyes:
This came up on youtube. I don't know if it is true. Some guy may analyze it.

 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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