What I'm doing is not stroking his ego. I am helping him. He needs to learn that he shouldn't be depending on the views, opinions or attention of others. He needs to be a completely independent person, driven by self, not by others. I think this is the core of Don Juan.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Duamutef
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Please do not confuse being a Don Juan with being affected by 'Don-Juanism', that is actually a psychological disorder, coming from deep insecurity and the need to feel reassured by popular consense.
PS: Excellent night sarging out: to make it brief: beer, kino, c&f are the best, at least when you succeed in not puking your 'pepperoni and zucchini' pasta all over your female friends. I succeeded in not puking, and was awarded with two numbers and a makeout session. I love wednesday night.
PS: Excellent night sarging out: to make it brief: beer, kino, c&f are the best, at least when you succeed in not puking your 'pepperoni and zucchini' pasta all over your female friends. I succeeded in not puking, and was awarded with two numbers and a makeout session. I love wednesday night.
Docs
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Have the Pook haters turned against Shezzlabot and his Chicago-town boys in hopes of creating something useful??
A lot of you are big fvcking morons, I say that again.
BIG
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I never read the 10,000 Approach post, but why should I. First, I totally believe in Shezzlabot to go out and APPROACH, fail or not. Whether he hits his magic number is of no revelence. Figure that you do say...100 approaches a year. You do the math and tell me if he's going to hit it before he reachs old age?
Now, take into account your useless flaming and head-bashing against people that have posted EXCELLENT MATERIAL. Why? Why in all names would you flame because you can? It makes the whole lot of you stand out as the noobs of the board, believe it or not. Grow up, shut your mouth if you got nothing convient to add, learn something and tell us about it.
A lot of you are big fvcking morons, I say that again.
BIG
FVCKING
MORONS
I never read the 10,000 Approach post, but why should I. First, I totally believe in Shezzlabot to go out and APPROACH, fail or not. Whether he hits his magic number is of no revelence. Figure that you do say...100 approaches a year. You do the math and tell me if he's going to hit it before he reachs old age?
Now, take into account your useless flaming and head-bashing against people that have posted EXCELLENT MATERIAL. Why? Why in all names would you flame because you can? It makes the whole lot of you stand out as the noobs of the board, believe it or not. Grow up, shut your mouth if you got nothing convient to add, learn something and tell us about it.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
syncmaster
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Wow - you guys really felt it necessary to start ANOTHER thread about this.
seanchai
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I don't know anything about JC and Shezz other than what they post here. I'm inclined to believe them because they post a lot of FRs. And since all I know about them is their online personas, I can only really make claims off that. So what I'd claim is this: they seem like fun guys who are here to help and who get a lot of satisfaction out of doing so. I know I'd definitely rather hang out with them than a guy who starts a thread like this or a guy who quotes that guy tearing someone down in his signature.
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