"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Even if this was true, which it isn't, why would it bother you? If that would help him in any way whatsoever then great! Something good would come of it.

Read BrotherAP's thread carefully! It's exactly what this forum is here for. Helping eachother out and becoming better people and smoother with women. We are here to help eachother. So even though you find someone that views things differently then you do, let it slide. Don't get caught up in it.
What I'm doing is not stroking his ego. I am helping him. He needs to learn that he shouldn't be depending on the views, opinions or attention of others. He needs to be a completely independent person, driven by self, not by others. I think this is the core of Don Juan.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Please do not confuse being a Don Juan with being affected by 'Don-Juanism', that is actually a psychological disorder, coming from deep insecurity and the need to feel reassured by popular consense.

PS: Excellent night sarging out: to make it brief: beer, kino, c&f are the best, at least when you succeed in not puking your 'pepperoni and zucchini' pasta all over your female friends. I succeeded in not puking, and was awarded with two numbers and a makeout session. I love wednesday night.
 

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Have the Pook haters turned against Shezzlabot and his Chicago-town boys in hopes of creating something useful??

A lot of you are big fvcking morons, I say that again.

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I never read the 10,000 Approach post, but why should I. First, I totally believe in Shezzlabot to go out and APPROACH, fail or not. Whether he hits his magic number is of no revelence. Figure that you do say...100 approaches a year. You do the math and tell me if he's going to hit it before he reachs old age?

Now, take into account your useless flaming and head-bashing against people that have posted EXCELLENT MATERIAL. Why? Why in all names would you flame because you can? It makes the whole lot of you stand out as the noobs of the board, believe it or not. Grow up, shut your mouth if you got nothing convient to add, learn something and tell us about it.
 

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Guess what I learned. When you put comments in big font, I just look, laugh, and a big sense of pity falls on me. lol:crackup:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I don't know anything about JC and Shezz other than what they post here. I'm inclined to believe them because they post a lot of FRs. And since all I know about them is their online personas, I can only really make claims off that. So what I'd claim is this: they seem like fun guys who are here to help and who get a lot of satisfaction out of doing so. I know I'd definitely rather hang out with them than a guy who starts a thread like this or a guy who quotes that guy tearing someone down in his signature.
 
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