What I'm doing is not stroking his ego. I am helping him. He needs to learn that he shouldn't be depending on the views, opinions or attention of others. He needs to be a completely independent person, driven by self, not by others. I think this is the core of Don Juan.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Many posters here act like they are hot shyt...
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Duamutef
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Please do not confuse being a Don Juan with being affected by 'Don-Juanism', that is actually a psychological disorder, coming from deep insecurity and the need to feel reassured by popular consense.
PS: Excellent night sarging out: to make it brief: beer, kino, c&f are the best, at least when you succeed in not puking your 'pepperoni and zucchini' pasta all over your female friends. I succeeded in not puking, and was awarded with two numbers and a makeout session. I love wednesday night.
PS: Excellent night sarging out: to make it brief: beer, kino, c&f are the best, at least when you succeed in not puking your 'pepperoni and zucchini' pasta all over your female friends. I succeeded in not puking, and was awarded with two numbers and a makeout session. I love wednesday night.
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Have the Pook haters turned against Shezzlabot and his Chicago-town boys in hopes of creating something useful??
A lot of you are big fvcking morons, I say that again.
BIG
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MORONS
I never read the 10,000 Approach post, but why should I. First, I totally believe in Shezzlabot to go out and APPROACH, fail or not. Whether he hits his magic number is of no revelence. Figure that you do say...100 approaches a year. You do the math and tell me if he's going to hit it before he reachs old age?
Now, take into account your useless flaming and head-bashing against people that have posted EXCELLENT MATERIAL. Why? Why in all names would you flame because you can? It makes the whole lot of you stand out as the noobs of the board, believe it or not. Grow up, shut your mouth if you got nothing convient to add, learn something and tell us about it.
A lot of you are big fvcking morons, I say that again.
BIG
FVCKING
MORONS
I never read the 10,000 Approach post, but why should I. First, I totally believe in Shezzlabot to go out and APPROACH, fail or not. Whether he hits his magic number is of no revelence. Figure that you do say...100 approaches a year. You do the math and tell me if he's going to hit it before he reachs old age?
Now, take into account your useless flaming and head-bashing against people that have posted EXCELLENT MATERIAL. Why? Why in all names would you flame because you can? It makes the whole lot of you stand out as the noobs of the board, believe it or not. Grow up, shut your mouth if you got nothing convient to add, learn something and tell us about it.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
syncmaster
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Wow - you guys really felt it necessary to start ANOTHER thread about this.
seanchai
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I don't know anything about JC and Shezz other than what they post here. I'm inclined to believe them because they post a lot of FRs. And since all I know about them is their online personas, I can only really make claims off that. So what I'd claim is this: they seem like fun guys who are here to help and who get a lot of satisfaction out of doing so. I know I'd definitely rather hang out with them than a guy who starts a thread like this or a guy who quotes that guy tearing someone down in his signature.
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