What I'm doing is not stroking his ego. I am helping him. He needs to learn that he shouldn't be depending on the views, opinions or attention of others. He needs to be a completely independent person, driven by self, not by others. I think this is the core of Don Juan.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Many posters here act like they are hot shyt...
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Duamutef
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Please do not confuse being a Don Juan with being affected by 'Don-Juanism', that is actually a psychological disorder, coming from deep insecurity and the need to feel reassured by popular consense.
PS: Excellent night sarging out: to make it brief: beer, kino, c&f are the best, at least when you succeed in not puking your 'pepperoni and zucchini' pasta all over your female friends. I succeeded in not puking, and was awarded with two numbers and a makeout session. I love wednesday night.
PS: Excellent night sarging out: to make it brief: beer, kino, c&f are the best, at least when you succeed in not puking your 'pepperoni and zucchini' pasta all over your female friends. I succeeded in not puking, and was awarded with two numbers and a makeout session. I love wednesday night.
Docs
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Have the Pook haters turned against Shezzlabot and his Chicago-town boys in hopes of creating something useful??
A lot of you are big fvcking morons, I say that again.
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I never read the 10,000 Approach post, but why should I. First, I totally believe in Shezzlabot to go out and APPROACH, fail or not. Whether he hits his magic number is of no revelence. Figure that you do say...100 approaches a year. You do the math and tell me if he's going to hit it before he reachs old age?
Now, take into account your useless flaming and head-bashing against people that have posted EXCELLENT MATERIAL. Why? Why in all names would you flame because you can? It makes the whole lot of you stand out as the noobs of the board, believe it or not. Grow up, shut your mouth if you got nothing convient to add, learn something and tell us about it.
A lot of you are big fvcking morons, I say that again.
BIG
FVCKING
MORONS
I never read the 10,000 Approach post, but why should I. First, I totally believe in Shezzlabot to go out and APPROACH, fail or not. Whether he hits his magic number is of no revelence. Figure that you do say...100 approaches a year. You do the math and tell me if he's going to hit it before he reachs old age?
Now, take into account your useless flaming and head-bashing against people that have posted EXCELLENT MATERIAL. Why? Why in all names would you flame because you can? It makes the whole lot of you stand out as the noobs of the board, believe it or not. Grow up, shut your mouth if you got nothing convient to add, learn something and tell us about it.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
syncmaster
Master Don Juan
Wow - you guys really felt it necessary to start ANOTHER thread about this.
seanchai
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I don't know anything about JC and Shezz other than what they post here. I'm inclined to believe them because they post a lot of FRs. And since all I know about them is their online personas, I can only really make claims off that. So what I'd claim is this: they seem like fun guys who are here to help and who get a lot of satisfaction out of doing so. I know I'd definitely rather hang out with them than a guy who starts a thread like this or a guy who quotes that guy tearing someone down in his signature.
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