foreverAFC
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a quick glimpse into the legal system of today as it pertains to marriage
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
man loses house and gets sent to prison for child support
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Dash Riprock
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The irony being A) You can't make any money while you're in jail B) He will not be able to get a job at Wal Mart or Subway once the felony is on his record, hence he cannot pay child support or alimony. So now in addition to the guy being unemployable, he has no house to live in, because his b*itch ex wife took it. He will die homeless because he married the wrong person.
This can happen to ANY man at ANY time in a marriage.
This can happen to ANY man at ANY time in a marriage.
foreverAFC
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when i worked in construction, i knew plenty of old timers who had already reached their 30 year retirement with the union but could not retire because it was going to an ex wife, meaning they had to keep working until they die
what really disturbed me most about this video is the demeanor of the judge, completely devoid of any emotion whatsoever..........also whats worse is that in the description of the youtube video, it points out that the man is defending himself because he cant afford an attorney while his wife has 3 different attorneys on her side, none of which she is paying for
guys.....**** has hit the fan, getting married can str8 up get you thrown in prison/jail and every penny taken from you, even if you had the best intentions in the world and even if you were the best father
foreverAFC
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even if it did it would matter, the house goes to the woman and is considered seperate from child support, which is why this guy is going to get locked up behind bars next to real criminals, marriage in america is a scam
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
seems it doesnt stop people from marrying, or it does, but not all of them
a lot of shaming going on to prevent that. metoo, league of women voters, NOW, they're all designed to promote women's "issues" at any cost, even at the expense of good people (men and women included). this is what "feminism", specifically 3rd wave feminism has brought to the world, a bunch of crap that will eventually put women back in bondage, along with the rest of the west. These are the same women who wear p*ssy hats but support millions of migrants from cultures that consistently exploit, abuse and deny rights to women. Anyone want to guess where all of this empowered women crap takes us in another 20 years or so?
marmel75
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Its really weird because I know cases where the guy gets custody and gets child support from the woman even when he makes more than her...basically it comes down to who has the best lawyer in a lot of cases and who the judge is.
It always seems to be that one person gets screwed over pretty bad...usually the guy
It always seems to be that one person gets screwed over pretty bad...usually the guy
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I only did see it happen when the dude is smart enough to document all her crazyness, and she is slutting up he can also bring that up.
problem is most dudes don't, they trust the woman, trust others to do his things, becasue he or don't belive or is brainwashed he is a dirty person just because he is male and it his fault for the end of the marriage.
wifehunter
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Don't worry guys, the tsunami is coming.
Corrupt governments will fall.
Corrupt governments will fall.
wifehunter
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Buy Bitcoinz!
marmel75
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Yeah so when people steal them from you there is no recourse and you are SOL...seems smart.Buy Bitcoinz!
taiyuu_otoko
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Check out the movie, "Divorce Corp." on Netflix. Family courts are an extremely corrupt system unto themselves. A lot more complicated than "women banning together to change the laws."
No jury's, no appeals, pure tyranny.
Divorce lawyers and judges are about as evil as they come.
The whole family court system is corrupt beyond just raping men. All the judges are reelected because all the divorce attorneys contribute to their campaigns. So the judge favors whoever gave him the most money during any proceedings. The guys who have to visit families to make a "assessment" of the family life play both sides (father vs. mother) and give a report favorable to whoever pays him the most.
The "system" rapes the shyte out of people getting divorced. They really don't care who goes to jail. They really don't favor women over men.
It's really more of "both attorneys and the judge" vs. "the couple getting divorced" with the goal of squeezing the most money out of the divorce as possible. Part of the strategy of some of the attorneys is to prolong the divorce as long as possible so long as they other guy (or girl sometimes) still has assets they can squeeze. Winner doesn't pay, loser pays. So if you have assets in your name, both attorneys and the judge will conspire to make you cough them up however they want.
In documentary, one guy made some vague statements about his divorce judge on facebook and the divorce judge sentenced him to prison.
No jury's, no appeals, pure tyranny.
Divorce lawyers and judges are about as evil as they come.
The whole family court system is corrupt beyond just raping men. All the judges are reelected because all the divorce attorneys contribute to their campaigns. So the judge favors whoever gave him the most money during any proceedings. The guys who have to visit families to make a "assessment" of the family life play both sides (father vs. mother) and give a report favorable to whoever pays him the most.
The "system" rapes the shyte out of people getting divorced. They really don't care who goes to jail. They really don't favor women over men.
It's really more of "both attorneys and the judge" vs. "the couple getting divorced" with the goal of squeezing the most money out of the divorce as possible. Part of the strategy of some of the attorneys is to prolong the divorce as long as possible so long as they other guy (or girl sometimes) still has assets they can squeeze. Winner doesn't pay, loser pays. So if you have assets in your name, both attorneys and the judge will conspire to make you cough them up however they want.
In documentary, one guy made some vague statements about his divorce judge on facebook and the divorce judge sentenced him to prison.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
As long as this feminist society is allowed to continue...we're fukked, full stop.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Wtf can be done outside of revolution.?
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
What happened to this guy is a shame, but sorry. It's his own fvcking fault. You have to pay child support... PERIOD. If you don't have the money, too fvcking bad... go get another job and make up the difference. If you still are not making enough money, then file a motion in court for a reduction, then start paying WHAT YOU CAN AFFORD.
This idiot thought he could walk into a court of equity (not a court of law) without a lawyer, and convince the judge that the division of assets was child support? Again. I am not saying any of this is right, but what in the hell did he expect?
As long as you file the motion, and make SOME effort to pay something reasonable, based on what you are earning now, you will NOT get locked up. But you have to pay SOMETHING... if you are collecting un-employment, then 20% has to go to child support, minimum. Sorry it's this way, but you have to find some kind of work... even if it's working in a McDonald's... you have to show you are making an effort.
This idiot thought he could walk into a court of equity (not a court of law) without a lawyer, and convince the judge that the division of assets was child support? Again. I am not saying any of this is right, but what in the hell did he expect?
As long as you file the motion, and make SOME effort to pay something reasonable, based on what you are earning now, you will NOT get locked up. But you have to pay SOMETHING... if you are collecting un-employment, then 20% has to go to child support, minimum. Sorry it's this way, but you have to find some kind of work... even if it's working in a McDonald's... you have to show you are making an effort.
wifehunter
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An act of God.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.