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a quick glimpse into the legal system of today as it pertains to marriage
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
when i worked in construction, i knew plenty of old timers who had already reached their 30 year retirement with the union but could not retire because it was going to an ex wife, meaning they had to keep working until they dieThe irony being A) You can't make any money while you're in jail B) He will not be able to get a job at Wal Mart or Subway once the felony is on his record, hence he cannot pay child support or alimony. So now in addition to the guy being unemployable, he has no house to live in, because his b*itch ex wife took it. He will die homeless because he married the wrong person.
This can happen to ANY man at ANY time in a marriage.
even if it did it would matter, the house goes to the woman and is considered seperate from child support, which is why this guy is going to get locked up behind bars next to real criminals, marriage in america is a scamThis counters any logic because child doesnt cost 465 000 USD.
Man society in amerika is so weird in such cases
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
seems it doesnt stop people from marrying, or it does, but not all of themeven if it did it would matter, the house goes to the woman and is considered seperate from child support, which is why this guy is going to get locked up behind bars next to real criminals, marriage in america is a scam
a lot of shaming going on to prevent that. metoo, league of women voters, NOW, they're all designed to promote women's "issues" at any cost, even at the expense of good people (men and women included). this is what "feminism", specifically 3rd wave feminism has brought to the world, a bunch of crap that will eventually put women back in bondage, along with the rest of the west. These are the same women who wear p*ssy hats but support millions of migrants from cultures that consistently exploit, abuse and deny rights to women. Anyone want to guess where all of this empowered women crap takes us in another 20 years or so?Then men need to do something about it and get the law changed. Women rally and get laws changed or passed but men sit idle.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I only did see it happen when the dude is smart enough to document all her crazyness, and she is slutting up he can also bring that up.Its really weird because I know cases where the guy gets custody and gets child support from the woman even when he makes more than her...basically it comes down to who has the best lawyer in a lot of cases and who the judge is.
It always seems to be that one person gets screwed over pretty bad...usually the guy
Buy Bitcoinz!Then men need to do something about it and get the law changed. Women rally and get laws changed or passed but men sit idle.
Yeah so when people steal them from you there is no recourse and you are SOL...seems smart.Buy Bitcoinz!![]()
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
As long as this feminist society is allowed to continue...we're fukked, full stop.Do prenups fix this issue or are you still fvcked with a prenup?
Wtf can be done outside of revolution.?As long as this feminist society is allowed to continue...we're fukked, full stop.
An act of God.Wtf can be done outside of revolution.?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.