Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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warrior1

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Do most women who see a guy with a bunch of othe guys say 5 of them be viewed less attractive? I always heard if you are going out at night or going anywhere, you should not be with 5 buddies at the same time unless you are going to a bar or something.

I always was in a male pack about 3 years ago but i quickly left it because it was horrible. You guys get the image of 5-6 guys walking together. Most women say that is not appealing to them either which i also would agree. I am 21 now.

Do women rather see you walk by yourself rather than with 5 guys? Theres also the thing about social proof so how many people is it good to just walk with whether its going out at night or in the day. I heard 1 buddy is the best but is 2 pushing it?

I do see lot of guys together like 5-6 together and it just looks really gay. Like guys that play videos game and mama boys and cant get women.

Your thoughts on this would be great. I rarely am with more than 2 guy buddies usually at one time when going out.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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KontrollerX

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I wouldn't advise it.

Women could be intimidated and if not that you could be c0ck blocked by a jealous friend.

One other guy is alright to go along with though, its good to have a wingman sometimes.
 

warrior1

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yea i know what you mean. I usually like going out with 1 of my buddies. 2 is okay with me too. I just mean that if i was walking with 5 buddies of mine, it just makes me look like a loser. Would 2 guys be still okay? 1 seems like the best number.
 

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Well, the best option would be a mix of guys and girls.

Or maybe just you with a bunch of girls. But be careful you don't look like the gay friend.
 

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if you really care about what you look like, then yeah, 1 or 2 is probably ideal. As far as I'm concerned, though, I'll go have fun with as many friends as I feel like...Life isn't just about scoring babes when you're out.

5-6 is kind of a big group, anyway, tho. I usually prefer kinda small gatherings of friends.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Well it depends on the way you frame it in your mind. Remember its your reality. Its always the case when i would go out with 4 or 5 of my other friends we would engage very large groups of women in a 5 or 6 set.

When i would go out with 1 or 2 other guys we would usually engage a 2 or 3 set. Its not about how many you go out with, its just that the people you go out with have to be cool IMO.
 

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The only bad thing is if the boys in the group look like geeks. If not your cool and good to go. Stop reading so much into this....

Remember, when your out with your friends, your there to have a laugh and f&ck around. DOnt go out looking for women, go out for the banter.

Women will pickup on you having fun, and when you open them up and get chatting to them its game on....

You WORRY too much about how you look - care less and play the field more my man :yes:

Oh and yea, if there's women already in your social group it will be an advantage..
 

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Unless you're gangbanging or cruising for c0ck there isn't any reason to be out with 4 plus guys.

Chicks find it intimidating when a group of guys roll up on her. Unless she happens to be Jenna Haze.

Take one wingman (two max) and hit the town up.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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WTF just because you're with a group of guys doesn't mean you have to stay with them or next to them all night. Cruise off and do your own thing and then come back to them and joke around and then do whatever you want. Of course you shouldn't all talk to 1 chick as a group just go off and do your own thing.
 

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I usually go out with a group of 5 or even 6 but at least 3 of these guys are gym rats , athletic or boxers so for sure we don't look like geeks and we have a lot of fun so why care about what some girl think.
 
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