"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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warrior1

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Do most women who see a guy with a bunch of othe guys say 5 of them be viewed less attractive? I always heard if you are going out at night or going anywhere, you should not be with 5 buddies at the same time unless you are going to a bar or something.

I always was in a male pack about 3 years ago but i quickly left it because it was horrible. You guys get the image of 5-6 guys walking together. Most women say that is not appealing to them either which i also would agree. I am 21 now.

Do women rather see you walk by yourself rather than with 5 guys? Theres also the thing about social proof so how many people is it good to just walk with whether its going out at night or in the day. I heard 1 buddy is the best but is 2 pushing it?

I do see lot of guys together like 5-6 together and it just looks really gay. Like guys that play videos game and mama boys and cant get women.

Your thoughts on this would be great. I rarely am with more than 2 guy buddies usually at one time when going out.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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KontrollerX

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I wouldn't advise it.

Women could be intimidated and if not that you could be c0ck blocked by a jealous friend.

One other guy is alright to go along with though, its good to have a wingman sometimes.
 

warrior1

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yea i know what you mean. I usually like going out with 1 of my buddies. 2 is okay with me too. I just mean that if i was walking with 5 buddies of mine, it just makes me look like a loser. Would 2 guys be still okay? 1 seems like the best number.
 

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Well, the best option would be a mix of guys and girls.

Or maybe just you with a bunch of girls. But be careful you don't look like the gay friend.
 

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if you really care about what you look like, then yeah, 1 or 2 is probably ideal. As far as I'm concerned, though, I'll go have fun with as many friends as I feel like...Life isn't just about scoring babes when you're out.

5-6 is kind of a big group, anyway, tho. I usually prefer kinda small gatherings of friends.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Well it depends on the way you frame it in your mind. Remember its your reality. Its always the case when i would go out with 4 or 5 of my other friends we would engage very large groups of women in a 5 or 6 set.

When i would go out with 1 or 2 other guys we would usually engage a 2 or 3 set. Its not about how many you go out with, its just that the people you go out with have to be cool IMO.
 

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The only bad thing is if the boys in the group look like geeks. If not your cool and good to go. Stop reading so much into this....

Remember, when your out with your friends, your there to have a laugh and f&ck around. DOnt go out looking for women, go out for the banter.

Women will pickup on you having fun, and when you open them up and get chatting to them its game on....

You WORRY too much about how you look - care less and play the field more my man :yes:

Oh and yea, if there's women already in your social group it will be an advantage..
 

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Unless you're gangbanging or cruising for c0ck there isn't any reason to be out with 4 plus guys.

Chicks find it intimidating when a group of guys roll up on her. Unless she happens to be Jenna Haze.

Take one wingman (two max) and hit the town up.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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WTF just because you're with a group of guys doesn't mean you have to stay with them or next to them all night. Cruise off and do your own thing and then come back to them and joke around and then do whatever you want. Of course you shouldn't all talk to 1 chick as a group just go off and do your own thing.
 

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I usually go out with a group of 5 or even 6 but at least 3 of these guys are gym rats , athletic or boxers so for sure we don't look like geeks and we have a lot of fun so why care about what some girl think.
 
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