Making the most out of my time

[Plinco]

Plinco said
"Since then I promoted the principle of individual authority over external authority as a corollary of the principle of acting in one's own self-interest. I noticed that people acted out by other's authority impulsively and I felt both superior and the calling to teach people the principle of self-authority."

IMHO, somewhere along your journey and your striving not to be influenced by, or to submit to external authority it appears you have put blinders on yourself. You may be aware and you may be not. You fight to maintain your viewpoint, without seeing beyond it, whether you realize it or not. You are limiting yourself and your perception….

I live by moral principles. Also, we would not be having this discussion if I had blinders on my perception.

….Rather than stepping OUT OF your viewpoint, expanding your perception, and REALLY considering what others here see, in your behavior and choices, it seems that you keep your blinders on and directly or indirectly, declare what is not in the limited scope of your blinders, as not so, or irrelevant, so to speak. You seem to think it has no relevance to you, as it is outside your tunnel vision. You are mistaken.

I had to really think about this. I think what you are saying is that I do not comprehend what other people are saying. What I think is going on, is that I am expected to take what people say and I am supposed to have an emotional reaction to it, and if I don’t, then I am ignoring it and have tunnel vision. I have a mind an engineer that wants to cut through the b.s. and look at the facts and uphold the moral principle of rational self-interest.

I am going to look back and carefully review what other people have said in this topic and see if I can understand something that I did not comprehend before. Maybe I missed something.

While that may keep yourself, on track with your goals and proud of yourself for not being influenced by authority, other than your own, you are failing to see the costs and pitfalls that are right around you, in your blind spots. You have tunnel vision. You are not seeing the picture as those of us, without YOUR blinders on, see it. I am not sharing this as a judgement. I am saying this to awaken you to the realization. You are moving forward with huge pot holes and sink holes next to your feet but you act as if they are not so, as long as you look forward and refuse to look down and see/acknowledge them. Or your blinders are so ingrained that you simply can't see beyond them right now.

I appreciate it when people point out things that are in my blind spots. The last thing I want to do when getting from point A to point B is step on a mine. People like you are the kind of people I like to keep close to me if possible. With that said, I will walk through a minefield to get to any of my four goals, including the first one of socializing like a 20 year old.

I'll point out some of the disparity I see.

I asked you to compare statements that in my view directly contradicted each other. I expected it to be obvious to you. It wasn't. You in fact saw and justified the exact opposite of what I was hoping you would awaken to, beyond your blinders.

I asked you to compare YOUR statement of "I don't live for others." with some other things you had also written.



Plinco said:
Rejection=shame
Acceptance=pride

Plinco said:
I don't live for other people.

Consider these... Do they match???

What I see without your blinders...are statements by someone who VERY MUCH CARES what others think of him. THE OPINIONS OF OTHERS (especially 18-24 year old, popular college kids) is what is currently driving your choices, your emotions and your feelings of self worth. If one rejects you, you feel shame. Rather than their opinion, being their own, and a reflection of THEM and NOT YOU, you SEE IT AS A DETERMINANT OF YOUR VALUE. If they accept you, you feel pride. If they reject you, you feel shame. YOU have chosen to put yourself at the mercy of OTHER PEOPLE'S FEELINGS AND THOUGHTS, AS THE DECIDER OF YOUR VALUE.

The differences between my statements are contextual.

My consciousness has sole authority over my mind and body, or at least that’s what I am striving for; not an easy goal! Really. That requires a level of both frustration and pain tolerance that I don’t even know yet. I just know that I’m getting there. Gaining youth is a part of that development.

I care what people think to the extent of exchanging values with that person. Of course I want there to be a relationship there, provided that the person has something that I uphold as a value. When I say that I don’t care what someone thinks, what I am really saying is that the person does not have authority over me and I am looking to another person who will help me achieve my goal.

For example, say there is a pretty 19 year old girl. I talk to her, and if I think there is a potential relationship with, I will ask her what she is doing over the weekend and ask her if she wants to play frisbee with me. She will say something like, “uhm, maybe.” I will say, “Yes or no.” etc. If she says “no” then I’m okay with it, usually I shrug my shoulders and walk away. I don’t care what she thinks at that point. I cared a little bit before I asked her otherwise I would not have asked her to begin with. I don’t feel any shame in this situation.

As far as the ‘collective’ group is concerned, I care enough not to get arrested or lose any possibility of gaining any values at all from any individual because I know that most people are weak minded and care too much of what people think in general. If given the right circumstance, I will tell an audience of people to go f* themselves, regardless of their age.

Knowing that I can achieve my values=pride

Feeling that I cannot achieving my values=shame


I am going to think about this more and see if I have a mental disorder.

YOUR OWN alignment, with YOUR OWN values and actions creates CONGRUENCE within you, that creates TRUE PRIDE.

Having fun with young people is congruent with my values.

… It is chasing/seeking the approval/validation of a special target audience. 18-24 year old POPULAR KIDS. The approval of "those kids" and declaration and acceptance of you is what you seek. YOU WANT FOR THEM TO ADMIRE YOU and FOR THEM TO SEE YOU AS, "AS GOOD AS THEM," PREFERABLY ----EVEN BETTER THAN THEM. You do! [/QUOTE]

What’s wrong with that?

I get that in a weird way it feels like life and death, that there is this intense drive in you to GAIN AND RECEIVE THEIR APPROVAL AND ADMIRATION! It is undeniable. It is all over your posts directly or indirectly. Hold back the defensiveness. Be smart. Consider it. You can declare it irrelevant or not applicable, without looking at it. What you will miss is that you have given control of your self worth and your sense of satisfaction, to nameless strangers, you have never even met yet. You are on a mission to feel accepted, by strangers! I get you will feel driven to respond and argue. I am not here for that. I am not interested in that. There is no right and wrong. It's your life and you have choices. I am simply suggesting you pull off your blinders and REALLY CONSIDER THAT YOU HAVE GIVEN YOUR POWER AWAY TO STRANGERS!

I literally just had an insight when I read this. I think the term most would usually use is ‘moral center.’ I want to call it, a or the, value center.


Correct me if I am wrong, but I think what you are getting at is that other people in this case have my personal moral center and dictate what is good or bad because I am trying to compensate on some level.



It’s not that it is an authority over me, but rather where the values are. Let me really think about that because you might be on to something here.

Maybe, just maybe...WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR...REALLY...IS TO TAKE YOUR OWN POWER BACK????

I think that’s what everybody wants to do. Yes, I think so.

 

[Plinco]

I contend that is really where you feel off-balance.

You think those young popular kids can somehow grant it back to you and then you will feel better about yourself and heal what did not go the way you wanted earlier in your life. What happens when a different clique of young popular kids gives you a snotty look or laughs in your direction the next day, next year, in ten years??? You will always feel powerless to how they perceive you....UNTIL YOU CHOOSE TO TAKE YOUR POWER BACK!!!!

UNTIL YOU CHOOSE....YES CHOOSE....TO REALIGN YOUR SELF VALUE, WITH YOUR OWN UNCONDITIONAL LOVING,
...AND WITH THE CONGRUENCE YOU FEEL, BETWEEN YOUR OWN VALUES AND ACTIONS.

YOU THINK THEY HAVE THE POWER TO SET YO FREE. IT'S AN ILLUSION. THEY CAN'T GIVE YOU YOUR POWER BACK. YOU TAKE IT BACK. YOU BURST THE BUBBLE OF THE ILLUSION. YOU CHOOSE TO...OR YOU DON'T.

I think you are chasing a mirage trying to find and gain self approval through the approval of 18-24 popular college kids. You won't find it there. You can come back and post a response below where declare that it is not so that it is not what you are looking for, in your interactions with them. It will be an empty declaration. Those will be words of your ego not wanting to be perceived as less than your ideal self. Get over it. Everyone here is human and has their own sh!t so to speak. You have yours. Pretending you don't isn't going to clean it up or make it stink any less. It will simply keep you on the same merry-go-round, going up and down, in circles, never really getting anywhere.

Consider that perhaps there is whole big life for you, off that merry-go-round. Consider taking YOUR power back and what life could feel like, waking up every day, lined up inside yourself, feeling great and interacting with the world that way.

Opportunity is yours. Life without those blinders is far bigger than the merry-go-round. Lots of other rides and fun to be had, in this life. Taking your power back means giving up that story. You may be able to see it and do it. You may not yet. I am offering it up, in case this helps you to see it.

Having your self worth be at the whim of strangers or simply people outside of you, is chasing a mirage. You will never feel truly satisfied. Life will you by before you know it.

Food for thought.
Wishing you the best.
LYD

I have to get back to work. I will answer this tonight.

 

[Plinco]

That is a reflexive answer. You are smarter than that.

Nothing about what I brought up speaks of morality. That is your defensiveness looking/reaching for something to defend against.

See if you can, even for a moment, drop all of your defensiveness, and read what I wrote, not through the lens of needing to defend of justify your choices. If you can read it that way. Then see if you can ponder it, from that place as well.

It will likely be little bits at a time. Watch how your defensiveness WANTS to get involved as you read it and ponder it. Watch it. Become aware of it. It does not always serve your best interest. Be aware of it. Its one thing to be defensive by conscious decided choice. It's another when it is simply reflexive.

Right now your defensiveness is searching. Have a conversation with it. Tell it you are the boss and you are going to put it aside for 20 minutes. (Sounds weird I know..just play with it.) It's well developed, your defensiveness, you can pick it up again fully after those 20 minutes. Can you are you willing to, FULLY put it aside to read and consider what I offered you, without it.

With it, you'll keep seeing what you have always seen. Life on the merry-go-round for you, it will be.
Being able, and that's a skill you may need to develop, to drop it and see with it out, will expand your horizons.

You desire great success, I know. These are skills and insights that will assist you. Be willing.
I don't expect you to see it clearly in one read. Cracks may occur. They will let in some light that will allow you to see little pieces until you truly get it. I am not judging. I am not here with a moral view or an agenda to change you. You can relax about that. I am offering you insight into leveling yourself up (not about age), in how you interact in the world.

If it doesn't make sense fully yet, be kind to yourself. Give it space. Let it percolate in you. Let your defensiveness rest and let yourself see more. A bit at a time. Eventually you'll see it.

To answer your question, Yes, I am a woman.

I brought morals into the discussion because I talked about my values. When I said I may have a mental illness, I was being hypothetical and blunt.

 

[Plinco]

You think those young popular kids can somehow grant it back to you and then you will feel better about yourself and heal what did not go the way you wanted earlier in your life. What happens when a different clique of young popular kids gives you a snotty look or laughs in your direction the next day, next year, in ten years??? You will always feel powerless to how they perceive you....UNTIL YOU CHOOSE TO TAKE YOUR POWER BACK!!!!

UNTIL YOU CHOOSE....YES CHOOSE....TO REALIGN YOUR SELF VALUE, WITH YOUR OWN UNCONDITIONAL LOVING,
...AND WITH THE CONGRUENCE YOU FEEL, BETWEEN YOUR OWN VALUES AND ACTIONS.

YOU THINK THEY HAVE THE POWER TO SET YO FREE. IT'S AN ILLUSION. THEY CAN'T GIVE YOU YOUR POWER BACK. YOU TAKE IT BACK. YOU BURST THE BUBBLE OF THE ILLUSION. YOU CHOOSE TO...OR YOU DON'T.

I think you are chasing a mirage trying to find and gain self approval through the approval of 18-24 popular college kids. You won't find it there. You can come back and post a response below where declare that it is not so that it is not what you are looking for, in your interactions with them. It will be an empty declaration. Those will be words of your ego not wanting to be perceived as less than your ideal self. Get over it. Everyone here is human and has their own sh!t so to speak. You have yours. Pretending you don't isn't going to clean it up or make it stink any less. It will simply keep you on the same merry-go-round, going up and down, in circles, never really getting anywhere.

Consider that perhaps there is whole big life for you, off that merry-go-round. Consider taking YOUR power back and what life could feel like, waking up every day, lined up inside yourself, feeling great and interacting with the world that way.

Opportunity is yours. Life without those blinders is far bigger than the merry-go-round. Lots of other rides and fun to be had, in this life. Taking your power back means giving up that story. You may be able to see it and do it. You may not yet. I am offering it up, in case this helps you to see it.

Having your self worth be at the whim of strangers or simply people outside of you, is chasing a mirage. You will never feel truly satisfied. Life will you by before you know it.

Food for thought.
Wishing you the best.
LYD

[/QUOTE]

You sound like you are insightful into psychology. I would definitely call this thinking outside of the box for me, in certain ways I already thought of some of this too. Of course I still want what I want, but maybe what I should do is take complete control over my physical health and then approach my goal, while looking for inhibitions.

I would be interesting if we had a face to face discussion.

 

[Plinco]

When you say... "achieving my values," what does that mean to you exactly? Examples please. What values exactly do you feel separate from?

When you say...
"I care what people think to the extent of exchanging values with that person. Of course I want there to be a relationship there, provided that the person has something that I uphold as a value.

Again, please explain what you mean when you use the word value here. Please give examples of what values are exchanged and how.

Your use of the word values is new/uncommon to me. I am wanting to understand with clarity what you are truly conveying with these statements. They are key for you. Please help me and explain them further.

noun
noun: value; plural noun: values

1. 1.
   the regard that something is held to deserve; the importance, worth, or usefulness of something.
   
   
   
2. 2.
   a person's principles or standards of behavior; one's judgment of what is important in life.
   
   
   "The Objectivist ethics holds man's life as the standard of value—and his own life as the ethical purpose of every individual man. ... The standard of value of the Objectivist ethics—the standard by which one judges what is good or evil—is man's life, or: that which is required for man's survival qua man."

Standard of Value

The Ayn Rand Lexicon: This mini-encyclopedia of Objectivism is compiled from Ayn Rand’s statements on some 400 topics in philosophy, economics, psychology, and history.

aynrandlexicon.com

Values are contextual. It is always important to ask "to whom and for what" when defining a value. Everyone has their own individual values, they are not innate nor are they subjective.

 

[Plinco]

What inspired you to specially choose this quote to tag your posts: "The real problem is that you dislike pain,"?

How and why is it personally significant and meaningful to you? Why did you choose it tag every one of your posts with?

The 'Asian Lover' was a member here a long time ago, back when I used to visit this site on a regular basis. He said it very well at the time something that I have thought about but did not verbalize quite that simply. Since then I have told many people that the key to freedom and free will is character, and the key to character is learning how to focus yourself despite either pain or frustration.

 

[Plinco]

When you say... "achieving my values,"
What values exactly do you feel separate from, and are striving or focused upon achieving? and then Why for each value, please.

I don't know what you mean by separate from. Do you mean values that I have not achieved yet? And I am also going to assume that you mean the values for my #1 goal, because I can write a short book on each item that I hold as a value. I mean, I value beef liver, but I'm pretty sure that is not what this topic is about.

Entertainment = increases serotonin and regulates dopamine.
The feeling of low anxiety = anxiety is a killer, it produces cortisol, adrenaline, and noradrenaline. Low anxiety turns all of that off.
The feelings of love = Love is the most selfish emotion; an affirmation of controlling reality.
Hormones, especially HGH = The hormone that keeps humans living; it is the anti-aging hormone that promotes reproductive health also.
learning, knowledge = discovery of what was not known before for the purpose of being better able to control reality.
opening increasing potential = potential decreases anxiety by lending the approximation of achieving or over achieving values/goals.

I have achieved all of these values partially, but not enough to where it is satisfactory.

When you say... "I care what people think to the extent of exchanging values with that person. Of course I want there to be a relationship there, provided that the person has something that I uphold as a value.
Please give examples of what values you experienced as exchanged and how.

This is a dumb question.

I walk into a market and if they do not sell beef liver, I'm walking out; I don't have a relationship with them. Or if the market does have beef liver to sell, I want to exchange my currency for the liver; I have a relationship with them.

If a couple of 30-something women invite me to a bar with them, I don't want to go because these older women don't have enough to offer me. Or 20 year old guys and girls want to play some game with me, I go because I value what they have to offer (the traits that I listed above).

Does this answer the question sufficiently?

 

[Plinco]

Do you subscribe to the belief that a goal must be effortful, difficult or painful to obtain, in order to be highly valued? If so, explain please. Would you still value it and welcome it, if you could simply have it and enjoy it? Would you resist that? why or why not?

A highly valued goal does not have to be difficult per say, but usually it is. I might highly value $2 bills, but it's not difficult to go to a bank and get one. Maybe I have no interest to climb Mount Everest, it's difficult, but I don't value it.

I don't see why I would resist having something that I could have with little effort. I would be somewhat bummed out if it were easy because the challenge makes it fun and builds the character

 

[Plinco]

This is a dumb question.

I walk into a market and if they do not sell beef liver, I'm walking out; I don't have a relationship with them. Or if the market does have beef liver to sell, I want to exchange my currency for the liver; I have a relationship with them.

If a couple of 30-something women invite me to a bar with them, I don't want to go because these older women don't have enough to offer me. Or 20 year old guys and girls want to play some game with me, I go because I value what they have to offer (the traits that I listed above).

Does this answer the question sufficiently?

I'll add in that hanging out with the younger people is way more fun then the older people.

 

[Plinco]

1.) my cognitive facilities
2.) physical needs, food, water, sleep, air.
3.) logic and reasoning
4.) Individualism
5.) Good functional health (strength, etc.)
6.) capitalism
7.) Work/career/money (currency) (skill sets in this area)
8.) Career #2, which involves my book and politics
9.) hard money (gold and silver)
10.) close relationships that I already have

 

[Plinco]

@Plinco I expected to have plenty of time and space, to offer you a thoughtful reply today. Instead, my day was the exact opposite. It has been non-stop and on the go. I do not want to write something at this late hour just for the sake of responding because I said I would. I feel exhausted right now. Even more than that, I also need/want to give much greater consideration, to what is actually truly present for me.

I apologize for not replying today, as I expected and as I said I would. Know that I did read what you shared last night. I need to re-read it and consider it further. It was a tricky one, for me. A good night's sleep and clarity must come first. That's my plan. Know I appreciate your patience and understanding in the meanwhile.

I appreciate your time and effort))
What do I owe you?)

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

How do I make the most out of my limited time? Am I missing anything?

Just be a cool guy. I find it taxing when people try too hard.

IMHO you fall on this category. Even as a 30yr old man, i beat acquisition of top form SMV 18-23 more than anybody. The woman are at their peak. They will never be there again.

I get the idea, you want yo be the Wooderson. Creep on the younger crowds girls rather than just approaching and spitting game. Spot IOIs and choosing signals. Make your move. Chat up everyone. Guys are potentially wings, gym partners, and friends. Pull girls.


Nobody mentioned the elephant in the room. Women are one aspect. Young men have the fire and vigor though lacking competence (usually). Do not try to fit in. Just be that relic of masculinity that has since gone extinct. You will see that many males in the millennial age brackets are male feminist soy boys beta cucks.

Imade a bud. Young guy. In his mid 20s. A chick approached him and he ran away lulz i lost respect for him. The generation is a joke. He is a mess. Likely a virgin. I don't get it but the lack of testosterone is why young girls are ****ing up.

 

[Plinco]

I went to a social last night at the university campus, and I remembered in detail how I felt:

Being there felt good. I felt like I was in the place that I was supposed to be. I felt comfortable; I did not feel like any part of it was forced. I did not feel like I had to impress anybody. Instead I felt and thought that the people I was talking to were of higher value than people I would normally talk to day to day. The whole social gathering was fun and entertaining. A day later, and my mood is still more uplifted than normal. No one except a few of the girls had a problem with me being there, again I look much younger than I am. The guys were worth more of my time to talk to and the girls were worth hitting on.

After reflecting on a previous statement you made, I think the issue is more that I expected a performance of communication rather than having to prove something to anyone else besides myself.

From my perspective, you are looking to feel comfortable in your own skin. More than that you want to feel highly confident and even proud of who you are. You are not there right now. You have these lingering feelings, of not feeling accepted as one of the cool and popular kids. You feel less-than. As I see it, your "logic" tells you that if you are able to interact with popular high-value, college kids now and get them to like you, admire you, and accept you, that in some way you will finally feel healed, of your old hurts from before. That you believe you will "finally" have repaired the self-perceived "broken parts" of you and then be able to go forward into writing your book and selling your material and being in the world with full and true self-confidence.

My concern is that I think your "logic" is off. I think you want and expect it to work the way you perceive it and have designed it for yourself. There are aspects, to me, that are incongruent with that.

The first is that one's self acceptance is not gained by the receiving the acceptance of others. It is independent of that. It may make it easier. It is still independent. Believing strangers somehow hold the keys to your self acceptance and self confidence is also a huge error in thinking. That is where I previously spoke about the importance of choosing to take your power back, being a big key for you.

It's more like being able to interact and being able to dominate when necessary. I think you are close in your analysis.

Another is the fact that you will be presenting yourself in an unauthentic way, seeking acceptance of that inauthentic presentation of you, and then expecting that to transfer over, and affect your own acceptance, of the authentic you. The authentic you will still be hidden behind the current facade you will presenting. In the end, I think you may actually feel more disconnected and isolated rather than more. You will have proven that the fake you can be accepted but that the real you still needs to hide. How meaningful is it to have a fake you be accepted and looked up to? What does it say about your authentic self, to feel the need to do that?

So, there is the authentic you that is 35 right now. You want to heal up and fix the 20 year old in you. Even supposing that were to work as you hope, there is still you right now that is disconnected and just as unaccepted, by you as well. I guess in some way, what I am adding in is that running to your past will not necessarily take care of the present. As I see it, your discomfort exists, as much in the present, as you perceive it does in the past.

Then why do I feel more authentic while I was at that social last night?

I think you have set up goals to circumvent your attention away from facing that. As I see it, your discomfort and disharmony will still be there, until you are willing to face it fully, in the present.

I think and feel that I am facing exactly where I need to face. My discomfort and disharmony lies in the fact that I cannot do this everyday, nor have I done this sooner.

I think that is all I have right now. I realize that aspects of this may resonate or not at all. I realize your inclination will most likely be to continue as you are. I am not at all attached. You determine what is right for you. I felt moved to share what I see, in the event it helps you, shorten your learning curve. That is all.

I wish you the best,
LYD

And I fully appreciate it. Thank you!

 

[Plinco]

Update:

So I started hanging out with a Christian group at the university campus (even though I am not Christian) and playing volleyball once a week. I also asked out four girls (all 18) on dates that I know in my local area; they all said "no"

I am feeling a bit happier but I think my next target is to really pump up my hormones in the gym and at home with better sleep and eating habits. Hopefully I can get to where I want to go by the fall semester.

 

[Spaz]

Update:

So I started hanging out with a Christian group at the university campus (even though I am not Christian) and playing volleyball once a week. I also asked out four girls (all 18) on dates that I know in my local area; they all said "no"

I am feeling a bit happier but I think my next target is to really pump up my hormones in the gym and at home with better sleep and eating habits. Hopefully I can get to where I want to go by the fall semester.

Too much mothering that's why ur mindset is warped.

The feminine mindset is always one that seeks others to feel part of the herd, that's you wanting to be with 18 year olds thereby putting urself in the herd, always in competition mode, always molding, never leading.

The masculine mindset is one that always lures the herd his way, picking off those young ones that amuses him the most, he is after all 1st and foremost a predator.

Increase ur sphere of influence to lead the herd ur way and stop wasting time being under influence of the herd.

How?

Be a guest speaker at the college by offering ur experience and expertise as a marketing man.

If u make an impression there, you will get more invites and you will be influential.

All these will earn you admiration from a whole section of people, from students to their teachers.

Now u r leading the herd.

Now u r somebody.

Now u r important.

Now people listen to you.

Now you have increased ur sphere of influence.

Just don't do some illegal shiet like forcing urself on impressionable girls that you bring home.

 

[Plinco]

Too much mothering that's why ur mindset is warped.

The feminine mindset is always one that seeks others to feel part of the herd, that's you wanting to be with 18 year olds thereby putting urself in the herd, always in competition mode, always molding, never leading.

The masculine mindset is one that always lures the herd his way, picking off those young ones that amuses him the most, he is after all 1st and foremost a predator.

Increase ur sphere of influence to lead the herd ur way and stop wasting time being under influence of the herd.

How?

Be a guest speaker at the college by offering ur experience and expertise as a marketing man.

If u make an impression there, you will get more invites and you will be influential.

All these will earn you admiration from a whole section of people, from students to their teachers.

Now u r leading the herd.

Now u r somebody.

Now u r important.

Now people listen to you.

Now you have increased ur sphere of influence.

Just don't do some illegal shiet like forcing urself on impressionable girls that you bring home.

I appreciate the response but it's more about the freedom than being a part of something. It's about putting myself where I want to be.

Being in a "authority" position is not the way I want to market myself right now. I just want to have fun and have no hindrances.

 

[MatureDJ]

If you're going to be an orbiter, be an orbiter around Cynthia, even if she has a "Moonface".

 

[Plinco]

If you're going to be an orbiter, be an orbiter around Cynthia, even if she has a "Moonface".

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I don't get the reference)

 

[MatureDJ]

I don't get the reference)

The word "cynth" means Moon; it's derived from one of the names for the Greek goddess of the Moon, Cynthia. It is used in the words pericynth & apocynth to describe an orbit around the Moon.

I thought my reference to this was very timely.

Cynthia - Wikipedia

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Lunar orbit - Wikipedia

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[DEEZEDBRAH]

Just interact with more people. Aim at your targeted demographic. Be warned, the current generation sucks. Yes, younger is hotter. I have some younger friends but that group of men walk on egg shells. I have seen guys run away after a girl approaches. Its pathetic.