"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Making my Intentions Clear

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Just started talking to this cool girl. Got her number yesterday and we've been talking on and off throughout the day. If it's possible I thinking being in the talking stage or a relationship with her would be pretty cool. I feel like I've been texting her too casually though. She takes 30 minutes + to respond so maybe I'm not that important. Earlier though, she tweeted "if you want me, make it known". Of course it wasn't for me directly but I think I wanna follow that tweet.

How should I text her to make it known that I'm interested? Should I just type up my intentions? Or is that too much since we really just start talking to each other this morning. I kinda have to change something soon or else I'll be in the friendzone. Let's not forget that their are other boys in her messages as well. I could flirt but I don't wanna push her away etc.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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keeps texts to a bare minimum!

Texts are for setting up dates only after building brief rapport..
 
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She could be busy, bur generaly if she is super interested she will reply as soon it is possible, not longer than 10min, if you dont have intention of being her friend, then go for it, you have nothing to lose, you are not together and you are not friends, so you are not losing either friend or lover, and if a lot of other guys are hitting on her, then her ego is probabbly huge and she can play how she wants, so if everyone has her, noone has her i hope you understand what i mean hahah, good luck!
 
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You can't take her on a date? What fvcked up place is this? Called out in what way? That it's obvious you're interested? That's what you want to do, let her know you're interested.

You are much better off showing your interest with actions rather than words. Taking her on a date is one way to do it. Just generally flirting is plenty signaling for a girl, but it has to be slightly beyond the border of friendly chatter. Actions a guy wouldn't possibly do without being interested.

You gotta grow some balls and make some bold moves, telling her "I'm interested in you" isn't going to work and most likely is just awkward.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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brad jarry said:
How should I text her to make it known that I'm interested? Should I just type up my intentions? Or is that too much since we really just start talking to each other this morning. I kinda have to change something soon or else I'll be in the friendzone. Let's not forget that their are other boys in her messages as well. I could flirt but I don't wanna push her away etc.
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be sexual, if she has a problem with it she doesn't like you anyway.

also ask her out if she responds well to you being sexual and your conversations in general.

brad jarry said:
. She takes 30 minutes + to respond so maybe I'm not that important.
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30 minutes isn't so bad, any longer than an hour is bad though.
 
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