"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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    Flipping the script....

    I have noticed that girls tend to ask questions like where are you from, what do you do etc not because they want to get to know me but as a way to sort of put me in a category of whether or not she’s interested. To flip the script, i could reframe the questions she asks into another question...
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    Will I get played

    I'll try to make this as short as possible. Last week in a job training class, I met this girl who I thought looked really good. The last day of class I got her Snapchat and she messaged me. We talked and I eventually got her number. She admitted that she thought I was cute when she first saw me...
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    Talking to Multiple Women

    Can someone explain this concept to me? Because the way I thought, I believed that you should only invest feelings and time in one person and not have multiple people thinking that they have a chance with you etc. like you're a pimp or something. But the DJ bible and people on this site think...
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    Making my Intentions Clear

    Just started talking to this cool girl. Got her number yesterday and we've been talking on and off throughout the day. If it's possible I thinking being in the talking stage or a relationship with her would be pretty cool. I feel like I've been texting her too casually though. She takes 30...
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