"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Young Juan

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The Face Book

www.thefacebook.com is something i just learned about recently but it's basically a website that networks college students from your campus and campuses all over the U.S. You can create your own profile, group w/ your own message board, and other fun stuff. The best aspect though is that it's a free way to interact with girls you can SEE AND KNOW are at your college. Beginner DJ's can use the poke and messaging as a predecesor to cold approaches and advanced DJs can use it to meet girls within ur college that u might not necessarilly meet in ur everyday activity. Also, it shows who your friends are and you can meet people who you are connected to through friends, class, and a host of other interests. There's thousands of people from my school, U of AZ, on here. The best part about it is that it's all in the name of fun, it's free, and its a good medium to practice and improve your skills. There's tons more u can do on here but u just gotta check it for yourself.

If your school is on there, you need a school e-mail to get logged-on and its easy money from there.

www.thefacebook.com enjoy!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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hey u go to u of az? i go to asu, what year are you? would be nice to sarge up tucson some weekend!
 

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Love the facebook, but I wouldn't use it as a tool for actually meeting people. I like to see what hot girls are connected to my friends, and then asked my friends to introduce me in person. It can also be used as an IOI for girls you meet at parties - if they add you as a friend the next day, it probably means they're interested.

Also, from what girls have told me, they find it kinda creepy when someone they don't know sends them a message out of nowhere. Try it at your own risk.

I go to Wash U btw...
 

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dcfball - i'm a jr. here.

Interpol - Of course there's gonna be a creep factor if u message a chick outta nowhere. I personally like to surf a little and poke about 10 chicks and see which ones and how many poke me back. I see getting poked or poked back as a green light to holla. If we exchange a few messages and she seems cool i'll add her to my friends and if she accepts I take it from there and if not then i'll see her when i see her.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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yeah, there are a TON of hot chicks in that thing for my school. Pretty amazing how many are single and looking for boyfriends. The onyl thing id use it for is if I ever happened to bump into said girl, i'd know if they were single or not.
 

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Not another "thefacebook" thread. This has been mentioned about a zillion times, thanks though.
 

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I observed with some amusement a friend of mine named Katherine, who found about several f*ckbuddies (she's a bit of a nympho :crackup: ) through facebook during the first few months of school. So yeah, if you are an attractive woman, you can get guys interested in you - but this is the case in just about all situations. I have NEVER seen successful cold pickups by guys on facebook. It seems that girls will FREQUENTLY get messaged by guys from random schools when they have attractive pics up, and they do not like this. I have seen many of my female friends get EXTREMELY sketched out

Facebook, like all forms of messaging, is a tool. Use it as such: for example, if an interested girl friends you, consider playing with her by sending her a message saying you are not ready for that kind of commitment (obviously silly, since the "commitment" is a facebook friendship - but she will start to worry), and reject her :p . I have done this to good effect several times.

Since we all seem to be posting our schools, I go to Brown University.
 
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