"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Young Juan

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The Face Book

www.thefacebook.com is something i just learned about recently but it's basically a website that networks college students from your campus and campuses all over the U.S. You can create your own profile, group w/ your own message board, and other fun stuff. The best aspect though is that it's a free way to interact with girls you can SEE AND KNOW are at your college. Beginner DJ's can use the poke and messaging as a predecesor to cold approaches and advanced DJs can use it to meet girls within ur college that u might not necessarilly meet in ur everyday activity. Also, it shows who your friends are and you can meet people who you are connected to through friends, class, and a host of other interests. There's thousands of people from my school, U of AZ, on here. The best part about it is that it's all in the name of fun, it's free, and its a good medium to practice and improve your skills. There's tons more u can do on here but u just gotta check it for yourself.

If your school is on there, you need a school e-mail to get logged-on and its easy money from there.

www.thefacebook.com enjoy!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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hey u go to u of az? i go to asu, what year are you? would be nice to sarge up tucson some weekend!
 

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Love the facebook, but I wouldn't use it as a tool for actually meeting people. I like to see what hot girls are connected to my friends, and then asked my friends to introduce me in person. It can also be used as an IOI for girls you meet at parties - if they add you as a friend the next day, it probably means they're interested.

Also, from what girls have told me, they find it kinda creepy when someone they don't know sends them a message out of nowhere. Try it at your own risk.

I go to Wash U btw...
 

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dcfball - i'm a jr. here.

Interpol - Of course there's gonna be a creep factor if u message a chick outta nowhere. I personally like to surf a little and poke about 10 chicks and see which ones and how many poke me back. I see getting poked or poked back as a green light to holla. If we exchange a few messages and she seems cool i'll add her to my friends and if she accepts I take it from there and if not then i'll see her when i see her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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true|hockey

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yeah, there are a TON of hot chicks in that thing for my school. Pretty amazing how many are single and looking for boyfriends. The onyl thing id use it for is if I ever happened to bump into said girl, i'd know if they were single or not.
 

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Not another "thefacebook" thread. This has been mentioned about a zillion times, thanks though.
 

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I observed with some amusement a friend of mine named Katherine, who found about several f*ckbuddies (she's a bit of a nympho :crackup: ) through facebook during the first few months of school. So yeah, if you are an attractive woman, you can get guys interested in you - but this is the case in just about all situations. I have NEVER seen successful cold pickups by guys on facebook. It seems that girls will FREQUENTLY get messaged by guys from random schools when they have attractive pics up, and they do not like this. I have seen many of my female friends get EXTREMELY sketched out

Facebook, like all forms of messaging, is a tool. Use it as such: for example, if an interested girl friends you, consider playing with her by sending her a message saying you are not ready for that kind of commitment (obviously silly, since the "commitment" is a facebook friendship - but she will start to worry), and reject her :p . I have done this to good effect several times.

Since we all seem to be posting our schools, I go to Brown University.
 
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