"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Making it soooooooo easy for college DJs

Young Juan

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The Face Book

www.thefacebook.com is something i just learned about recently but it's basically a website that networks college students from your campus and campuses all over the U.S. You can create your own profile, group w/ your own message board, and other fun stuff. The best aspect though is that it's a free way to interact with girls you can SEE AND KNOW are at your college. Beginner DJ's can use the poke and messaging as a predecesor to cold approaches and advanced DJs can use it to meet girls within ur college that u might not necessarilly meet in ur everyday activity. Also, it shows who your friends are and you can meet people who you are connected to through friends, class, and a host of other interests. There's thousands of people from my school, U of AZ, on here. The best part about it is that it's all in the name of fun, it's free, and its a good medium to practice and improve your skills. There's tons more u can do on here but u just gotta check it for yourself.

If your school is on there, you need a school e-mail to get logged-on and its easy money from there.

www.thefacebook.com enjoy!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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hey u go to u of az? i go to asu, what year are you? would be nice to sarge up tucson some weekend!
 

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Love the facebook, but I wouldn't use it as a tool for actually meeting people. I like to see what hot girls are connected to my friends, and then asked my friends to introduce me in person. It can also be used as an IOI for girls you meet at parties - if they add you as a friend the next day, it probably means they're interested.

Also, from what girls have told me, they find it kinda creepy when someone they don't know sends them a message out of nowhere. Try it at your own risk.

I go to Wash U btw...
 

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dcfball - i'm a jr. here.

Interpol - Of course there's gonna be a creep factor if u message a chick outta nowhere. I personally like to surf a little and poke about 10 chicks and see which ones and how many poke me back. I see getting poked or poked back as a green light to holla. If we exchange a few messages and she seems cool i'll add her to my friends and if she accepts I take it from there and if not then i'll see her when i see her.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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true|hockey

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yeah, there are a TON of hot chicks in that thing for my school. Pretty amazing how many are single and looking for boyfriends. The onyl thing id use it for is if I ever happened to bump into said girl, i'd know if they were single or not.
 

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Not another "thefacebook" thread. This has been mentioned about a zillion times, thanks though.
 

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I observed with some amusement a friend of mine named Katherine, who found about several f*ckbuddies (she's a bit of a nympho :crackup: ) through facebook during the first few months of school. So yeah, if you are an attractive woman, you can get guys interested in you - but this is the case in just about all situations. I have NEVER seen successful cold pickups by guys on facebook. It seems that girls will FREQUENTLY get messaged by guys from random schools when they have attractive pics up, and they do not like this. I have seen many of my female friends get EXTREMELY sketched out

Facebook, like all forms of messaging, is a tool. Use it as such: for example, if an interested girl friends you, consider playing with her by sending her a message saying you are not ready for that kind of commitment (obviously silly, since the "commitment" is a facebook friendship - but she will start to worry), and reject her :p . I have done this to good effect several times.

Since we all seem to be posting our schools, I go to Brown University.
 
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