"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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making freind can help ur dating life i think

joe45

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i'm not sure about u guys but i think i going to make more guy freinds-the type that gets gilrs or has a gf-no mor eloner, quiet, vid games, introver guys as freinds-those are the type i usuallt hang with and its been a disaster when it comes to dating for me . 24 no gf ever yea lol truth. so saddd

i think most of the time couples meet through freinds-they set em uo and all. i really don't think meetin through the internet onlne would ever work, school is hard too-i mean when is there a chacne for both of u to chat-and she might be taken too right. but with freinds its easy they now u both are single and looking.

i just have to make freinds with guys that are able to help and also have freinds that are girls. i wonder. i think as i get older and older its going be soo much harder-all the good ones will be taken and i'll be just a single old man living by myself-i would hate that.

most girls from what i hear start dating like at 18 or even younger- i wasted too much time. before i had messy long hair , thick glasses, low selfesteem and confidence-i changed-gym, wearing nicer too
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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aftershock

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Bigger social circle = you meet more people = meet more girls.

Fvck me, I should work for NASA or something.
 

JH6

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walk around a college campus and run game on girls all day long.

Its fun and good practice.

Jeez, and in your spare time start a myspace account, its good to meet new ppl, and interact with them.
 

Maverick001

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Definitely make friends with a guy or guys that are naturally successful with women.

You`re only as good as the people you play with.

Cheers,
Mav
 

Tazman

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Most importantly, you need to start talking to girls yourself because no one can "show" you what's going to make YOU successful. I've tried observing guys and it just isn't the same if you aren't actually doing it yourself. Practice man, that's the only way you're going to get out of this rut. There are no short cuts when it comes to this dude. Tips are fine only if you you're out there doing something and not just "looking."
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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MacDiddy

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You hang with losers, you become one. You can't leach of their successes coz they have none, nor do they introduce you to any.

If D&D world (example) is where you want to be than so be it, but chicks don't gravitate to that sort of $hit.

Also make urself sparse amongst friends. They need to miss you too.
 

DonJuanMonk

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Make friends with "attractive" girls that have other girlfriends. For guy friends, meh.. make good guy friends, the ones that you can click well with each other.
 

I_Only_Live_Once

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It could help, but you should change yourself, that's more important.
 
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