"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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making freind can help ur dating life i think

joe45

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i'm not sure about u guys but i think i going to make more guy freinds-the type that gets gilrs or has a gf-no mor eloner, quiet, vid games, introver guys as freinds-those are the type i usuallt hang with and its been a disaster when it comes to dating for me . 24 no gf ever yea lol truth. so saddd

i think most of the time couples meet through freinds-they set em uo and all. i really don't think meetin through the internet onlne would ever work, school is hard too-i mean when is there a chacne for both of u to chat-and she might be taken too right. but with freinds its easy they now u both are single and looking.

i just have to make freinds with guys that are able to help and also have freinds that are girls. i wonder. i think as i get older and older its going be soo much harder-all the good ones will be taken and i'll be just a single old man living by myself-i would hate that.

most girls from what i hear start dating like at 18 or even younger- i wasted too much time. before i had messy long hair , thick glasses, low selfesteem and confidence-i changed-gym, wearing nicer too
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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aftershock

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Bigger social circle = you meet more people = meet more girls.

Fvck me, I should work for NASA or something.
 

JH6

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walk around a college campus and run game on girls all day long.

Its fun and good practice.

Jeez, and in your spare time start a myspace account, its good to meet new ppl, and interact with them.
 

Maverick001

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Definitely make friends with a guy or guys that are naturally successful with women.

You`re only as good as the people you play with.

Cheers,
Mav
 

Tazman

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Most importantly, you need to start talking to girls yourself because no one can "show" you what's going to make YOU successful. I've tried observing guys and it just isn't the same if you aren't actually doing it yourself. Practice man, that's the only way you're going to get out of this rut. There are no short cuts when it comes to this dude. Tips are fine only if you you're out there doing something and not just "looking."
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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MacDiddy

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You hang with losers, you become one. You can't leach of their successes coz they have none, nor do they introduce you to any.

If D&D world (example) is where you want to be than so be it, but chicks don't gravitate to that sort of $hit.

Also make urself sparse amongst friends. They need to miss you too.
 

DonJuanMonk

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Make friends with "attractive" girls that have other girlfriends. For guy friends, meh.. make good guy friends, the ones that you can click well with each other.
 

I_Only_Live_Once

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It could help, but you should change yourself, that's more important.
 
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