"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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making freind can help ur dating life i think

joe45

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i'm not sure about u guys but i think i going to make more guy freinds-the type that gets gilrs or has a gf-no mor eloner, quiet, vid games, introver guys as freinds-those are the type i usuallt hang with and its been a disaster when it comes to dating for me . 24 no gf ever yea lol truth. so saddd

i think most of the time couples meet through freinds-they set em uo and all. i really don't think meetin through the internet onlne would ever work, school is hard too-i mean when is there a chacne for both of u to chat-and she might be taken too right. but with freinds its easy they now u both are single and looking.

i just have to make freinds with guys that are able to help and also have freinds that are girls. i wonder. i think as i get older and older its going be soo much harder-all the good ones will be taken and i'll be just a single old man living by myself-i would hate that.

most girls from what i hear start dating like at 18 or even younger- i wasted too much time. before i had messy long hair , thick glasses, low selfesteem and confidence-i changed-gym, wearing nicer too
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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aftershock

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Bigger social circle = you meet more people = meet more girls.

Fvck me, I should work for NASA or something.
 

JH6

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walk around a college campus and run game on girls all day long.

Its fun and good practice.

Jeez, and in your spare time start a myspace account, its good to meet new ppl, and interact with them.
 

Maverick001

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Definitely make friends with a guy or guys that are naturally successful with women.

You`re only as good as the people you play with.

Cheers,
Mav
 

Tazman

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Most importantly, you need to start talking to girls yourself because no one can "show" you what's going to make YOU successful. I've tried observing guys and it just isn't the same if you aren't actually doing it yourself. Practice man, that's the only way you're going to get out of this rut. There are no short cuts when it comes to this dude. Tips are fine only if you you're out there doing something and not just "looking."
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MacDiddy

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You hang with losers, you become one. You can't leach of their successes coz they have none, nor do they introduce you to any.

If D&D world (example) is where you want to be than so be it, but chicks don't gravitate to that sort of $hit.

Also make urself sparse amongst friends. They need to miss you too.
 

DonJuanMonk

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Make friends with "attractive" girls that have other girlfriends. For guy friends, meh.. make good guy friends, the ones that you can click well with each other.
 

I_Only_Live_Once

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It could help, but you should change yourself, that's more important.
 
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