Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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making freind can help ur dating life i think

joe45

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i'm not sure about u guys but i think i going to make more guy freinds-the type that gets gilrs or has a gf-no mor eloner, quiet, vid games, introver guys as freinds-those are the type i usuallt hang with and its been a disaster when it comes to dating for me . 24 no gf ever yea lol truth. so saddd

i think most of the time couples meet through freinds-they set em uo and all. i really don't think meetin through the internet onlne would ever work, school is hard too-i mean when is there a chacne for both of u to chat-and she might be taken too right. but with freinds its easy they now u both are single and looking.

i just have to make freinds with guys that are able to help and also have freinds that are girls. i wonder. i think as i get older and older its going be soo much harder-all the good ones will be taken and i'll be just a single old man living by myself-i would hate that.

most girls from what i hear start dating like at 18 or even younger- i wasted too much time. before i had messy long hair , thick glasses, low selfesteem and confidence-i changed-gym, wearing nicer too
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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aftershock

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Bigger social circle = you meet more people = meet more girls.

Fvck me, I should work for NASA or something.
 

JH6

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walk around a college campus and run game on girls all day long.

Its fun and good practice.

Jeez, and in your spare time start a myspace account, its good to meet new ppl, and interact with them.
 

Maverick001

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Definitely make friends with a guy or guys that are naturally successful with women.

You`re only as good as the people you play with.

Cheers,
Mav
 

Tazman

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Most importantly, you need to start talking to girls yourself because no one can "show" you what's going to make YOU successful. I've tried observing guys and it just isn't the same if you aren't actually doing it yourself. Practice man, that's the only way you're going to get out of this rut. There are no short cuts when it comes to this dude. Tips are fine only if you you're out there doing something and not just "looking."
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MacDiddy

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You hang with losers, you become one. You can't leach of their successes coz they have none, nor do they introduce you to any.

If D&D world (example) is where you want to be than so be it, but chicks don't gravitate to that sort of $hit.

Also make urself sparse amongst friends. They need to miss you too.
 

DonJuanMonk

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Make friends with "attractive" girls that have other girlfriends. For guy friends, meh.. make good guy friends, the ones that you can click well with each other.
 

I_Only_Live_Once

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It could help, but you should change yourself, that's more important.
 
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