"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Making a woman feel good around you

speakeasy

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Whether you intention is to just get laid or to build a LTR, you aren't going to get anywhere unless you know what to do to make a woman feel good around you, when you start to get those ga-ga eyes from her.

What things have you done to make a girl feel really good and keep coming back for more. I'm not talking about sex here, though that's definitely part of it once you progress to that point.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Willis

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Jus, be comfortable wit yourself and dont look at her like u want to dig her out. tell jokes, make fun of her, and when you guys are out together make fun other stuff to get her laughing (not ot much, cause u might look like someonethat needs acceptanceand u look pretty lame). and smile (ever so often)
and tryto stand out from other guys, find something unique about yourself and use it
and no AFC behavior

-it worked 4 me,
 

speakeasy

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I mean more like things like pleasant surprises, ideas of things you can do to charm her. Not so much your attitude or personality.
 

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speakeasy said:
I mean more like things like pleasant surprises, ideas of things you can do to charm her. Not so much your attitude or personality.
If you want someone to like being around you then pay no attention to what their doing and make plenty of jokes suggesting they leave
 

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A long time ago I seen some advice on here that says. Talk to EVERYONE while you're out on a date. The waitress, the guy who tears your ticket in half at the movies, the dude pickin his nose at the red light next to you, EVERYONE. I used this advice once and it worked like a charm, now I use it everytime.

It helps the girl see more of what a great guy you are, you seem stronger to her emotionally and socially.

Oh and the whole teasing, humoring, and making fun of her all works great to make her feel more comfortable around you. do that to strangers too, it makes things more interesting.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Danny, great advice - be cool to everyone works for me big time as well.
D2J - maybe you should switch bit so that you are the one leaving and not her? Shows more power if it's your choice and what do you do when she says "O.K. I am leaving?" You can always say, "Look at that chick, she is hot! Wait up a minute I gotta go get her number." Then check her reaction.
 
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