"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Making a woman feel good around you

speakeasy

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Whether you intention is to just get laid or to build a LTR, you aren't going to get anywhere unless you know what to do to make a woman feel good around you, when you start to get those ga-ga eyes from her.

What things have you done to make a girl feel really good and keep coming back for more. I'm not talking about sex here, though that's definitely part of it once you progress to that point.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Willis

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Jus, be comfortable wit yourself and dont look at her like u want to dig her out. tell jokes, make fun of her, and when you guys are out together make fun other stuff to get her laughing (not ot much, cause u might look like someonethat needs acceptanceand u look pretty lame). and smile (ever so often)
and tryto stand out from other guys, find something unique about yourself and use it
and no AFC behavior

-it worked 4 me,
 

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I mean more like things like pleasant surprises, ideas of things you can do to charm her. Not so much your attitude or personality.
 

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speakeasy said:
I mean more like things like pleasant surprises, ideas of things you can do to charm her. Not so much your attitude or personality.
If you want someone to like being around you then pay no attention to what their doing and make plenty of jokes suggesting they leave
 

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A long time ago I seen some advice on here that says. Talk to EVERYONE while you're out on a date. The waitress, the guy who tears your ticket in half at the movies, the dude pickin his nose at the red light next to you, EVERYONE. I used this advice once and it worked like a charm, now I use it everytime.

It helps the girl see more of what a great guy you are, you seem stronger to her emotionally and socially.

Oh and the whole teasing, humoring, and making fun of her all works great to make her feel more comfortable around you. do that to strangers too, it makes things more interesting.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Danny, great advice - be cool to everyone works for me big time as well.
D2J - maybe you should switch bit so that you are the one leaving and not her? Shows more power if it's your choice and what do you do when she says "O.K. I am leaving?" You can always say, "Look at that chick, she is hot! Wait up a minute I gotta go get her number." Then check her reaction.
 
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