Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Making a woman feel good around you

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Whether you intention is to just get laid or to build a LTR, you aren't going to get anywhere unless you know what to do to make a woman feel good around you, when you start to get those ga-ga eyes from her.

What things have you done to make a girl feel really good and keep coming back for more. I'm not talking about sex here, though that's definitely part of it once you progress to that point.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Jus, be comfortable wit yourself and dont look at her like u want to dig her out. tell jokes, make fun of her, and when you guys are out together make fun other stuff to get her laughing (not ot much, cause u might look like someonethat needs acceptanceand u look pretty lame). and smile (ever so often)
and tryto stand out from other guys, find something unique about yourself and use it
and no AFC behavior

-it worked 4 me,
 

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I mean more like things like pleasant surprises, ideas of things you can do to charm her. Not so much your attitude or personality.
 

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speakeasy said:
I mean more like things like pleasant surprises, ideas of things you can do to charm her. Not so much your attitude or personality.
If you want someone to like being around you then pay no attention to what their doing and make plenty of jokes suggesting they leave
 

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A long time ago I seen some advice on here that says. Talk to EVERYONE while you're out on a date. The waitress, the guy who tears your ticket in half at the movies, the dude pickin his nose at the red light next to you, EVERYONE. I used this advice once and it worked like a charm, now I use it everytime.

It helps the girl see more of what a great guy you are, you seem stronger to her emotionally and socially.

Oh and the whole teasing, humoring, and making fun of her all works great to make her feel more comfortable around you. do that to strangers too, it makes things more interesting.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Danny, great advice - be cool to everyone works for me big time as well.
D2J - maybe you should switch bit so that you are the one leaving and not her? Shows more power if it's your choice and what do you do when she says "O.K. I am leaving?" You can always say, "Look at that chick, she is hot! Wait up a minute I gotta go get her number." Then check her reaction.
 
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