"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Making a woman feel good around you

speakeasy

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Whether you intention is to just get laid or to build a LTR, you aren't going to get anywhere unless you know what to do to make a woman feel good around you, when you start to get those ga-ga eyes from her.

What things have you done to make a girl feel really good and keep coming back for more. I'm not talking about sex here, though that's definitely part of it once you progress to that point.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Willis

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Jus, be comfortable wit yourself and dont look at her like u want to dig her out. tell jokes, make fun of her, and when you guys are out together make fun other stuff to get her laughing (not ot much, cause u might look like someonethat needs acceptanceand u look pretty lame). and smile (ever so often)
and tryto stand out from other guys, find something unique about yourself and use it
and no AFC behavior

-it worked 4 me,
 

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I mean more like things like pleasant surprises, ideas of things you can do to charm her. Not so much your attitude or personality.
 

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speakeasy said:
I mean more like things like pleasant surprises, ideas of things you can do to charm her. Not so much your attitude or personality.
If you want someone to like being around you then pay no attention to what their doing and make plenty of jokes suggesting they leave
 

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A long time ago I seen some advice on here that says. Talk to EVERYONE while you're out on a date. The waitress, the guy who tears your ticket in half at the movies, the dude pickin his nose at the red light next to you, EVERYONE. I used this advice once and it worked like a charm, now I use it everytime.

It helps the girl see more of what a great guy you are, you seem stronger to her emotionally and socially.

Oh and the whole teasing, humoring, and making fun of her all works great to make her feel more comfortable around you. do that to strangers too, it makes things more interesting.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Danny, great advice - be cool to everyone works for me big time as well.
D2J - maybe you should switch bit so that you are the one leaving and not her? Shows more power if it's your choice and what do you do when she says "O.K. I am leaving?" You can always say, "Look at that chick, she is hot! Wait up a minute I gotta go get her number." Then check her reaction.
 
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