"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Making a woman feel good around you

speakeasy

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Whether you intention is to just get laid or to build a LTR, you aren't going to get anywhere unless you know what to do to make a woman feel good around you, when you start to get those ga-ga eyes from her.

What things have you done to make a girl feel really good and keep coming back for more. I'm not talking about sex here, though that's definitely part of it once you progress to that point.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Willis

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Jus, be comfortable wit yourself and dont look at her like u want to dig her out. tell jokes, make fun of her, and when you guys are out together make fun other stuff to get her laughing (not ot much, cause u might look like someonethat needs acceptanceand u look pretty lame). and smile (ever so often)
and tryto stand out from other guys, find something unique about yourself and use it
and no AFC behavior

-it worked 4 me,
 

speakeasy

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I mean more like things like pleasant surprises, ideas of things you can do to charm her. Not so much your attitude or personality.
 

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speakeasy said:
I mean more like things like pleasant surprises, ideas of things you can do to charm her. Not so much your attitude or personality.
If you want someone to like being around you then pay no attention to what their doing and make plenty of jokes suggesting they leave
 

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A long time ago I seen some advice on here that says. Talk to EVERYONE while you're out on a date. The waitress, the guy who tears your ticket in half at the movies, the dude pickin his nose at the red light next to you, EVERYONE. I used this advice once and it worked like a charm, now I use it everytime.

It helps the girl see more of what a great guy you are, you seem stronger to her emotionally and socially.

Oh and the whole teasing, humoring, and making fun of her all works great to make her feel more comfortable around you. do that to strangers too, it makes things more interesting.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Danny, great advice - be cool to everyone works for me big time as well.
D2J - maybe you should switch bit so that you are the one leaving and not her? Shows more power if it's your choice and what do you do when she says "O.K. I am leaving?" You can always say, "Look at that chick, she is hot! Wait up a minute I gotta go get her number." Then check her reaction.
 
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