"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Makeou Friend : Just Slightly Above the Friendzone?

Ian19

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I decided to post a new thread about this even though it basically follows from a thread I started a few days ago : http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=172126

In general, do you all think there are some women who just want a friend of the opposite sex they can hang out with and as far as phsyical contact goes, JUST make out with. After two months of the predicament mentioned in my original post, I'm starting to think this could be the case, given that, after two months :

- we only make out (no indication that she wants to have sex)
- she seems to put up an emotional wall to keep things from getting too serious

Any thoughts?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Some girls give no indication of sex.

Nothing will have happened for months unless i made a risky move into her pants with my hand with my current gf.

You have to make her say no, untill she says no keep charging.

Stop thinking about emotions, focus on getting sex. That is your role and purpose as a man. If you manage to get a **** buddy that wants sex but has no emotional weight or demand, then you are king of men and have achieved the ultimate goal. The rest will sort itself out when u bang her.

Either bang or get rejected.
 

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In this case, I'm not approaching things as the pursuit of a **** buddy.
 

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Ian19 said:
In this case, I'm not approaching things as the pursuit of a **** buddy.
What he's saying is, if you have sex with her, she (like most girls) will find a reason to want to be more serious with you.

My pursuit of a f*** buddy and my pursuit of a girlfriend are the same thing. Take the girl out, show them a good time, and try to have sex with her. The "relationship" forms after that. And I mean relationship as in **** buddy relationship or girlfriend relationship...First comes the sex, then comes the classification of what you two are doing together.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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