"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Makeou Friend : Just Slightly Above the Friendzone?

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I decided to post a new thread about this even though it basically follows from a thread I started a few days ago : http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=172126

In general, do you all think there are some women who just want a friend of the opposite sex they can hang out with and as far as phsyical contact goes, JUST make out with. After two months of the predicament mentioned in my original post, I'm starting to think this could be the case, given that, after two months :

- we only make out (no indication that she wants to have sex)
- she seems to put up an emotional wall to keep things from getting too serious

Any thoughts?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Some girls give no indication of sex.

Nothing will have happened for months unless i made a risky move into her pants with my hand with my current gf.

You have to make her say no, untill she says no keep charging.

Stop thinking about emotions, focus on getting sex. That is your role and purpose as a man. If you manage to get a **** buddy that wants sex but has no emotional weight or demand, then you are king of men and have achieved the ultimate goal. The rest will sort itself out when u bang her.

Either bang or get rejected.
 
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In this case, I'm not approaching things as the pursuit of a **** buddy.
 
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Ian19 said:
In this case, I'm not approaching things as the pursuit of a **** buddy.
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What he's saying is, if you have sex with her, she (like most girls) will find a reason to want to be more serious with you.

My pursuit of a f*** buddy and my pursuit of a girlfriend are the same thing. Take the girl out, show them a good time, and try to have sex with her. The "relationship" forms after that. And I mean relationship as in **** buddy relationship or girlfriend relationship...First comes the sex, then comes the classification of what you two are doing together.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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