"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Makeou Friend : Just Slightly Above the Friendzone?

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I decided to post a new thread about this even though it basically follows from a thread I started a few days ago : http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=172126

In general, do you all think there are some women who just want a friend of the opposite sex they can hang out with and as far as phsyical contact goes, JUST make out with. After two months of the predicament mentioned in my original post, I'm starting to think this could be the case, given that, after two months :

- we only make out (no indication that she wants to have sex)
- she seems to put up an emotional wall to keep things from getting too serious

Any thoughts?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Some girls give no indication of sex.

Nothing will have happened for months unless i made a risky move into her pants with my hand with my current gf.

You have to make her say no, untill she says no keep charging.

Stop thinking about emotions, focus on getting sex. That is your role and purpose as a man. If you manage to get a **** buddy that wants sex but has no emotional weight or demand, then you are king of men and have achieved the ultimate goal. The rest will sort itself out when u bang her.

Either bang or get rejected.
 
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In this case, I'm not approaching things as the pursuit of a **** buddy.
 
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Ian19 said:
In this case, I'm not approaching things as the pursuit of a **** buddy.
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What he's saying is, if you have sex with her, she (like most girls) will find a reason to want to be more serious with you.

My pursuit of a f*** buddy and my pursuit of a girlfriend are the same thing. Take the girl out, show them a good time, and try to have sex with her. The "relationship" forms after that. And I mean relationship as in **** buddy relationship or girlfriend relationship...First comes the sex, then comes the classification of what you two are doing together.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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