Eating is for the weak...Anyways this OP is the same guy in the H&F forums saying hes gotten ripped in the last 3 months eating once a day and not working out.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Eating is for the weak...Anyways this OP is the same guy in the H&F forums saying hes gotten ripped in the last 3 months eating once a day and not working out.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Andromax said:^^ Hahaha, I almost spilled my coffee on my lap.
Anyways this OP is the same guy in the H&F forums saying hes gotten ripped in the last 3 months eating once a day and not working out.
Whatever works for YOU buddy!!
That's what I do, hang out and make eyes with girls until they approach.LAWYER said:haha...If you dont know how to make a girl come and talk to you without uttering a single word...then you are... hopeless
For those of you guys who know what I am talking about...its so easy right...all you basically do is just stare at her in a sexual way...and if she comes and talk to you...bingo...and if she walks away...who cares you stare at a different chick or if you really likes her you approach her.
I dont lack of confidence...and I dont drink...I dont approach girls because they come to me...mr_elor said:Lol, and whilst you're there glaring at her, a guy with decent game's gonna go and chat to her, then take her home.
But hey, if you like death row and don't feel confident enough to approach, that's cool. I'm sure you'll get the confidence at some point, maybe after a couple of drinks.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
potato said:That's what I do, hang out and make eyes with girls until they approach.
I dont look at hoz! I dont give advice...You either get it or you dont...I'm just posting things I know...The Gamer said:These are the kinds of posts that bring the overall quality of these forums DOWN. LAWYER--if it works for you thats great. If this 'style of writing' is here for a kind of antagonistic fire starter, thats great too. If it's not, I think most people rather you just don't supply advice.
Keep starin them hoz down!
yo, that post almost rhymed!LAWYER said:I dont look at hoz! I dont give advice...You either get it or you dont...I'm just posting things I know...
If my post offends you then take that as a sign that you dont get it...
I stare at my food.ChrizZ said:Eating is for the weak...
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Francisco d'Anconia said:I stare at my food.
aldaris said:yo, that post almost rhymed!
don't sweat it. don't let these clowns bring you down. we are the alpha males on here. we strut our stuff because we can. just today i dropped my pen and two young guys almost knocked heads reaching down to get it for me. of course it was a montblanc so i had to yell at the one who got it to give me back my ****ing pen! in the end i had my pen and had set the stage for an all-around alpha male day. i really should film my days and post them on here.
go buy a cameraLAWYER said:I wish I have a camera... I am better than Mystery on steriods...
ready123 said:go buy a camera
theyr'e not that expensive
Dude... please.LAWYER said:What am I saying...I do have a camera...I just need someone to film it...I mean.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
whyme2008 said:i have a question.is it ok to communicate constantly via text messages with a girl you never met?if not ,what is the best thing to do?
i have been talking to this girl that i never met except seeing a pic,with text messages.
am i killing it??
DJVladdy said:Oh Lordy... people like aldaris and lawyer - i'd love to see who they REALLY are. That's all I have to say. wow.
Anyways - staring at her in a sexual way: I can pull it off, but you have to be very masculine, very much "in the flow", and absolutely zero% creepiness.
Thanks for making me regurgitate last night's beer and buffalo wings...Wolf said:LAWYER in action:
http://www.tonyrogers.com/humor/images/brian_peppers1.jpg
Woah just look at that sexuality!
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.