"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Make a girl come and talk to you withou utterting a single word!
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Senior Don Juan
Andromax said:^^ Hahaha, I almost spilled my coffee on my lap.
Anyways this OP is the same guy in the H&F forums saying hes gotten ripped in the last 3 months eating once a day and not working out.
Whatever works for YOU buddy!!
Think whatever you want...
I'm not a couch potato...I'm active...I just dont lift weights...
I eat healthy and I'm sexually active...and this post...I just assume you guys know it...
That's what I do, hang out and make eyes with girls until they approach.LAWYER said:haha...If you dont know how to make a girl come and talk to you without uttering a single word...then you are... hopeless
For those of you guys who know what I am talking about...its so easy right...all you basically do is just stare at her in a sexual way...and if she comes and talk to you...bingo...and if she walks away...who cares you stare at a different chick or if you really likes her you approach her.
I dont lack of confidence...and I dont drink...I dont approach girls because they come to me...mr_elor said:Lol, and whilst you're there glaring at her, a guy with decent game's gonna go and chat to her, then take her home.
But hey, if you like death row and don't feel confident enough to approach, that's cool. I'm sure you'll get the confidence at some point, maybe after a couple of drinks.
I wear the current style...girls know I am the catch when they see me so they approach...I have no problem with approaching women...I'm very comfortable with myself...I master women.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
potato said:That's what I do, hang out and make eyes with girls until they approach.
Exactly...if you approach all the time...you will have more girl than you can handle.
Keep starin them hoz down!
I dont look at hoz! I dont give advice...You either get it or you dont...I'm just posting things I know...The Gamer said:These are the kinds of posts that bring the overall quality of these forums DOWN. LAWYER--if it works for you thats great. If this 'style of writing' is here for a kind of antagonistic fire starter, thats great too. If it's not, I think most people rather you just don't supply advice.
Keep starin them hoz down!
If my post offends you then take that as a sign that you dont get it...
yo, that post almost rhymed!LAWYER said:I dont look at hoz! I dont give advice...You either get it or you dont...I'm just posting things I know...
If my post offends you then take that as a sign that you dont get it...
don't sweat it. don't let these clowns bring you down. we are the alpha males on here. we strut our stuff because we can. just today i dropped my pen and two young guys almost knocked heads reaching down to get it for me. of course it was a montblanc so i had to yell at the one who got it to give me back my ****ing pen! in the end i had my pen and had set the stage for an all-around alpha male day. i really should film my days and post them on here.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I stare at my food.ChrizZ said:Eating is for the weak...
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Francisco d'Anconia said:I stare at my food.
Did you know if you stare at it long enough it talks ****.
aldaris said:yo, that post almost rhymed!
don't sweat it. don't let these clowns bring you down. we are the alpha males on here. we strut our stuff because we can. just today i dropped my pen and two young guys almost knocked heads reaching down to get it for me. of course it was a montblanc so i had to yell at the one who got it to give me back my ****ing pen! in the end i had my pen and had set the stage for an all-around alpha male day. i really should film my days and post them on here.
I wish I have a camera... I am better than Mystery on steriods...
ready123
Master Don Juan
go buy a cameraLAWYER said:I wish I have a camera... I am better than Mystery on steriods...
theyr'e not that expensive
ready123 said:go buy a camera
theyr'e not that expensive
What am I saying...I do have a camera...I just need someone to film it...I mean.
Dude... please.LAWYER said:What am I saying...I do have a camera...I just need someone to film it...I mean.
Stop typing, or accidentally break your fingers or something.
Fark.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
i have been talking to this girl that i never met except seeing a pic,with text messages.
am i killing it??
whyme2008 said:i have a question.is it ok to communicate constantly via text messages with a girl you never met?if not ,what is the best thing to do?
i have been talking to this girl that i never met except seeing a pic,with text messages.
am i killing it??
Dude you probably killed it already...and what the hell are you doing...your a dj you know better.
Anyways - staring at her in a sexual way: I can pull it off, but you have to be very masculine, very much "in the flow", and absolutely zero% creepiness.
DJVladdy said:Oh Lordy... people like aldaris and lawyer - i'd love to see who they REALLY are. That's all I have to say. wow.
Anyways - staring at her in a sexual way: I can pull it off, but you have to be very masculine, very much "in the flow", and absolutely zero% creepiness.
You can pull it offhaha...you idiot its a natural process anyone can pull it off...:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Thanks for making me regurgitate last night's beer and buffalo wings...Wolf said:LAWYER in action:
http://www.tonyrogers.com/humor/images/brian_peppers1.jpg
Woah just look at that sexuality!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.