"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Make a girl come and talk to you withou utterting a single word!
- Thread starter LAWYER
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Andromax said:^^ Hahaha, I almost spilled my coffee on my lap.
Anyways this OP is the same guy in the H&F forums saying hes gotten ripped in the last 3 months eating once a day and not working out.
Whatever works for YOU buddy!!
Think whatever you want...
I'm not a couch potato...I'm active...I just dont lift weights...
I eat healthy and I'm sexually active...and this post...I just assume you guys know it...
That's what I do, hang out and make eyes with girls until they approach.LAWYER said:haha...If you dont know how to make a girl come and talk to you without uttering a single word...then you are... hopeless
For those of you guys who know what I am talking about...its so easy right...all you basically do is just stare at her in a sexual way...and if she comes and talk to you...bingo...and if she walks away...who cares you stare at a different chick or if you really likes her you approach her.
I dont lack of confidence...and I dont drink...I dont approach girls because they come to me...mr_elor said:Lol, and whilst you're there glaring at her, a guy with decent game's gonna go and chat to her, then take her home.
But hey, if you like death row and don't feel confident enough to approach, that's cool. I'm sure you'll get the confidence at some point, maybe after a couple of drinks.
I wear the current style...girls know I am the catch when they see me so they approach...I have no problem with approaching women...I'm very comfortable with myself...I master women.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
potato said:That's what I do, hang out and make eyes with girls until they approach.
Exactly...if you approach all the time...you will have more girl than you can handle.
Keep starin them hoz down!
I dont look at hoz! I dont give advice...You either get it or you dont...I'm just posting things I know...The Gamer said:These are the kinds of posts that bring the overall quality of these forums DOWN. LAWYER--if it works for you thats great. If this 'style of writing' is here for a kind of antagonistic fire starter, thats great too. If it's not, I think most people rather you just don't supply advice.
Keep starin them hoz down!
If my post offends you then take that as a sign that you dont get it...
yo, that post almost rhymed!LAWYER said:I dont look at hoz! I dont give advice...You either get it or you dont...I'm just posting things I know...
If my post offends you then take that as a sign that you dont get it...
don't sweat it. don't let these clowns bring you down. we are the alpha males on here. we strut our stuff because we can. just today i dropped my pen and two young guys almost knocked heads reaching down to get it for me. of course it was a montblanc so i had to yell at the one who got it to give me back my ****ing pen! in the end i had my pen and had set the stage for an all-around alpha male day. i really should film my days and post them on here.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I stare at my food.ChrizZ said:Eating is for the weak...
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Francisco d'Anconia said:I stare at my food.
Did you know if you stare at it long enough it talks ****.
aldaris said:yo, that post almost rhymed!
don't sweat it. don't let these clowns bring you down. we are the alpha males on here. we strut our stuff because we can. just today i dropped my pen and two young guys almost knocked heads reaching down to get it for me. of course it was a montblanc so i had to yell at the one who got it to give me back my ****ing pen! in the end i had my pen and had set the stage for an all-around alpha male day. i really should film my days and post them on here.
I wish I have a camera... I am better than Mystery on steriods...
ready123
Master Don Juan
go buy a cameraLAWYER said:I wish I have a camera... I am better than Mystery on steriods...
theyr'e not that expensive
ready123 said:go buy a camera
theyr'e not that expensive
What am I saying...I do have a camera...I just need someone to film it...I mean.
Dude... please.LAWYER said:What am I saying...I do have a camera...I just need someone to film it...I mean.
Stop typing, or accidentally break your fingers or something.
Fark.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
i have been talking to this girl that i never met except seeing a pic,with text messages.
am i killing it??
whyme2008 said:i have a question.is it ok to communicate constantly via text messages with a girl you never met?if not ,what is the best thing to do?
i have been talking to this girl that i never met except seeing a pic,with text messages.
am i killing it??
Dude you probably killed it already...and what the hell are you doing...your a dj you know better.
Anyways - staring at her in a sexual way: I can pull it off, but you have to be very masculine, very much "in the flow", and absolutely zero% creepiness.
DJVladdy said:Oh Lordy... people like aldaris and lawyer - i'd love to see who they REALLY are. That's all I have to say. wow.
Anyways - staring at her in a sexual way: I can pull it off, but you have to be very masculine, very much "in the flow", and absolutely zero% creepiness.
You can pull it offhaha...you idiot its a natural process anyone can pull it off...:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Thanks for making me regurgitate last night's beer and buffalo wings...Wolf said:LAWYER in action:
http://www.tonyrogers.com/humor/images/brian_peppers1.jpg
Woah just look at that sexuality!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.