"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Maintaining tension when away

popsickle

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Hello everyone,

To cut it short, I'm in college and this girl had been eyeing me for several months (I was busy with other girls, though) without me being really aware of it. Eventually, I went away from school for a few months (I live in another country) but visited for one week. During that week, I decided to go for it and we had s3x multiple nights.

She was giving me lots of attention after I left (also got confirmation from friends that she was inquiring about me), but of course after a few weeks, her attention is now fading away. I will be going back to school after NYE and I'd like to keep the tension going until then, to kind of take up where we left off.
I'm a bit confused on how to do that. Should I just go ghost until I go back?

Thanks in advance
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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devilkingx2

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" If you keep on doing what you've always done, you'll keep on getting what you've always got"

that quote applies pretty well to everything

if she lost interest while you weren't giving her attention then give her more, if she lost interest while you were giving her attention then give her less,
 

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Very nicely written. post it contains useful information for me. I am happy to find your distinguished way of writing the post.
 

popsickle

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I feel like giving her more attention now would be counter productive if the mere distance made her lose interest in the first place, no?
 
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