"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Maintaining tension when away

popsickle

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Hello everyone,

To cut it short, I'm in college and this girl had been eyeing me for several months (I was busy with other girls, though) without me being really aware of it. Eventually, I went away from school for a few months (I live in another country) but visited for one week. During that week, I decided to go for it and we had s3x multiple nights.

She was giving me lots of attention after I left (also got confirmation from friends that she was inquiring about me), but of course after a few weeks, her attention is now fading away. I will be going back to school after NYE and I'd like to keep the tension going until then, to kind of take up where we left off.
I'm a bit confused on how to do that. Should I just go ghost until I go back?

Thanks in advance
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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devilkingx2

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" If you keep on doing what you've always done, you'll keep on getting what you've always got"

that quote applies pretty well to everything

if she lost interest while you weren't giving her attention then give her more, if she lost interest while you were giving her attention then give her less,
 

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Very nicely written. post it contains useful information for me. I am happy to find your distinguished way of writing the post.
 

popsickle

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I feel like giving her more attention now would be counter productive if the mere distance made her lose interest in the first place, no?
 
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