"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Maintaining tension when away

popsickle

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Hello everyone,

To cut it short, I'm in college and this girl had been eyeing me for several months (I was busy with other girls, though) without me being really aware of it. Eventually, I went away from school for a few months (I live in another country) but visited for one week. During that week, I decided to go for it and we had s3x multiple nights.

She was giving me lots of attention after I left (also got confirmation from friends that she was inquiring about me), but of course after a few weeks, her attention is now fading away. I will be going back to school after NYE and I'd like to keep the tension going until then, to kind of take up where we left off.
I'm a bit confused on how to do that. Should I just go ghost until I go back?

Thanks in advance
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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devilkingx2

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" If you keep on doing what you've always done, you'll keep on getting what you've always got"

that quote applies pretty well to everything

if she lost interest while you weren't giving her attention then give her more, if she lost interest while you were giving her attention then give her less,
 

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Very nicely written. post it contains useful information for me. I am happy to find your distinguished way of writing the post.
 

popsickle

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I feel like giving her more attention now would be counter productive if the mere distance made her lose interest in the first place, no?
 
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