"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Maintaining tension when away

popsickle

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Hello everyone,

To cut it short, I'm in college and this girl had been eyeing me for several months (I was busy with other girls, though) without me being really aware of it. Eventually, I went away from school for a few months (I live in another country) but visited for one week. During that week, I decided to go for it and we had s3x multiple nights.

She was giving me lots of attention after I left (also got confirmation from friends that she was inquiring about me), but of course after a few weeks, her attention is now fading away. I will be going back to school after NYE and I'd like to keep the tension going until then, to kind of take up where we left off.
I'm a bit confused on how to do that. Should I just go ghost until I go back?

Thanks in advance
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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devilkingx2

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" If you keep on doing what you've always done, you'll keep on getting what you've always got"

that quote applies pretty well to everything

if she lost interest while you weren't giving her attention then give her more, if she lost interest while you were giving her attention then give her less,
 

Millie404

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Very nicely written. post it contains useful information for me. I am happy to find your distinguished way of writing the post.
 

popsickle

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I feel like giving her more attention now would be counter productive if the mere distance made her lose interest in the first place, no?
 
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