"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Maintaining Frame with Ex

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Don Juan
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Tips on how to maintain frame ?
Ex girlfriend I dumped came around gain and I already banged her 2 weeks ago.
She is coming over this weekend again and will most likely stay the night since she lives about 2 hours away.
So far , I've been limiting texting and getting straight to the point.
She hasn't brought up any relationship talks and I'm definitely NOT interested in that right now.
Just plating 2 girls and now her at the moment. But my main concern is falling back to AFC mode because I already have a long history with her (6 years ).

Any tips ?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lozboss

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Yeah here's a tip:

Don't date your ex. It won't end well. Wake up and NEXT her immediately
 

BrainDamage92

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She doesnt want a relationship but you do, if you say such stuff as "she hasnt brought relationship talk". And you still have feelings for her. Yes Imma natural cop-shrink dont worry.

you are playing with fire, the only way to pull this is sleep\flirt with as many girls as possible after you sleep with her but meh... you still love her and she was prolly the one who ended it, so she holds the stronger hand. There's no winning frame here
 

Thorninmyside

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The only frame you want your ex in is a pine box (metaphorically!!!).
 

marmel75

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You have no frame...that's why she is an ex.

You want her back apparently, she just wants some sex til she finds another pole to ride regularly.

Stop wasting time on her and use it to find other women.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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