"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Main plate hooked up with another guy during new years, kind of bothered.

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Lover_boy said:
These are good assumptions, but keep in mind that her real bf is coming back to the states in early February and they will be moving in together in a small town in Arizona. Its set in stone and everything, in the meantime she's been dating me (and others) and according to her words, "Did her best to not get attached".
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Well here's you answer. Here bf is coming in two weeks, and I bet if she could have one wish, it would be you disappearing from her life , her spots and bars ect. A woman cant be with two men at the same time. Her bf is probably being all exited to see her, and my bet is the relationship ain't as open as she claims.

You had you fun with her and it's time to pass the torch. You had your turn. No hard feelings, because that deal was agreed upon long before today. I'd anything you should be thankful to her , that you got this typical RP lesson. This is just how some women operate.

Do nothing . Find a new woman. After some time she'll reach out, but it's not worth waiting for 3-6 months just be her rebound.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Gamisch said:
Well here's you answer. Here bf is coming in two weeks, and I bet if she could have one wish, it would be you disappearing from her life , her spots and bars ect. A woman cant be with two men at the same time. Her bf is probably being all exited to see her, and my bet is the relationship ain't as open as she claims.

You had you fun with her and it's time to pass the torch. You had your turn. No hard feelings, because that deal was agreed upon long before today. I'd anything you should be thankful to her , that you got this typical RP lesson. This is just how some women operate.

Do nothing . Find a new woman. After some time she'll reach out, but it's not worth waiting for 3-6 months just be her rebound.
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My bet is she isn't into this dude as he is into her and it likely is going to end up fizzling out pretty quickly. She's taken a bite of the forbidden fruit and there is no going back to boring.
 
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