"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Main plate hooked up with another guy during new years, kind of bothered.

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These are good assumptions, but keep in mind that her real bf is coming back to the states in early February and they will be moving in together in a small town in Arizona. Its set in stone and everything, in the meantime she's been dating me (and others) and according to her words, "Did her best to not get attached".
Well here's you answer. Here bf is coming in two weeks, and I bet if she could have one wish, it would be you disappearing from her life , her spots and bars ect. A woman cant be with two men at the same time. Her bf is probably being all exited to see her, and my bet is the relationship ain't as open as she claims.

You had you fun with her and it's time to pass the torch. You had your turn. No hard feelings, because that deal was agreed upon long before today. I'd anything you should be thankful to her , that you got this typical RP lesson. This is just how some women operate.

Do nothing . Find a new woman. After some time she'll reach out, but it's not worth waiting for 3-6 months just be her rebound.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well here's you answer. Here bf is coming in two weeks, and I bet if she could have one wish, it would be you disappearing from her life , her spots and bars ect. A woman cant be with two men at the same time. Her bf is probably being all exited to see her, and my bet is the relationship ain't as open as she claims.

You had you fun with her and it's time to pass the torch. You had your turn. No hard feelings, because that deal was agreed upon long before today. I'd anything you should be thankful to her , that you got this typical RP lesson. This is just how some women operate.

Do nothing . Find a new woman. After some time she'll reach out, but it's not worth waiting for 3-6 months just be her rebound.
My bet is she isn't into this dude as he is into her and it likely is going to end up fizzling out pretty quickly. She's taken a bite of the forbidden fruit and there is no going back to boring.
 
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