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These are good assumptions, but keep in mind that her real bf is coming back to the states in early February and they will be moving in together in a small town in Arizona. Its set in stone and everything, in the meantime she's been dating me (and others) and according to her words, "Did her best to not get attached".
Then drop her? I don't want to sound rude here, but what the h*** are you wanting from her? Seriously. She's 21 and certainly sounds like it. Nothing you've said about this girl even remotely resembles ltr material so what's going on? You're still getting your piece of the pie with sex and that's what a 'plate' is for? Have you genuinely caught feelings for this girl? Because that is what it sounds like brother. And if she's going to leave you high and dry for her actual bf and you have caught the feels you will get hurt. Don't date her
 

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Then drop her? I don't want to sound rude here, but what the h*** are you wanting from her? Seriously. She's 21 and certainly sounds like it. Nothing you've said about this girl even remotely resembles ltr material so what's going on? You're still getting your piece of the pie with sex and that's what a 'plate' is for? Have you genuinely caught feelings for this girl? Because that is what it sounds like brother. And if she's going to leave you high and dry for her actual bf and you have caught the feels you will get hurt. Don't date her
I guess I caught a bit of feelings for her yes. Or maybe just the classic "you want what you can't have" dilema.

Just shaken a bit by her 180 turn in behavior with me.
 

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These are good assumptions, but keep in mind that her real bf is coming back to the states in early February and they will be moving in together in a small town in Arizona. Its set in stone and everything, in the meantime she's been dating me (and others) and according to her words, "Did her best to not get attached".
Trust me when it comes to women nothing is "set in stone".
 

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I guess I caught a bit of feelings for her yes. Or maybe just the classic "you want what you can't have" dilema.

Just shaken a bit by her 180 turn in behavior with me.
I feel you man I really do. I would cut the cord and start moving on. It's gonna hurt like hell when she up and leaves you for her bf. And if she comes back to you would you really want her? You will never and I mean NEVER trust her, the damage is done. I've been there it sucks. Also keep in mind rejection breeds obsession
 

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These are good assumptions, but keep in mind that her real bf is coming back to the states in early February and they will be moving in together in a small town in Arizona. Its set in stone and everything, in the meantime she's been dating me (and others) and according to her words, "Did her best to not get attached".
Well here's you answer. Here bf is coming in two weeks, and I bet if she could have one wish, it would be you disappearing from her life , her spots and bars ect. A woman cant be with two men at the same time. Her bf is probably being all exited to see her, and my bet is the relationship ain't as open as she claims.

You had you fun with her and it's time to pass the torch. You had your turn. No hard feelings, because that deal was agreed upon long before today. I'd anything you should be thankful to her , that you got this typical RP lesson. This is just how some women operate.

Do nothing . Find a new woman. After some time she'll reach out, but it's not worth waiting for 3-6 months just be her rebound.
 

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Well here's you answer. Here bf is coming in two weeks, and I bet if she could have one wish, it would be you disappearing from her life , her spots and bars ect. A woman cant be with two men at the same time. Her bf is probably being all exited to see her, and my bet is the relationship ain't as open as she claims.

You had you fun with her and it's time to pass the torch. You had your turn. No hard feelings, because that deal was agreed upon long before today. I'd anything you should be thankful to her , that you got this typical RP lesson. This is just how some women operate.

Do nothing . Find a new woman. After some time she'll reach out, but it's not worth waiting for 3-6 months just be her rebound.
My bet is she isn't into this dude as he is into her and it likely is going to end up fizzling out pretty quickly. She's taken a bite of the forbidden fruit and there is no going back to boring.
 
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