"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Lying about having a gf
- Thread starter bob2007
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Who Dares Win
Master Don Juan
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If you are goodlooking its makes you even more attractive, if you look like a loser in her mind it will make you look even cheap as a person.
There are no tricks or short cuts when it comes SMV.
Depends on how attractive the girl is
Makes it harder. She won’t have sex with you if you have a gf.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Ahh. No. Hardened hoez in the game expect any attractive man to have at least one woman.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
backseatjuan
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To raise your SMV. It won't work, because she didn't see your girlfriend, maybe your girlfriend is uglier than her, it matters. So saying you have a girlfriend, would prevent you from fcking her, since she didn't see your girlfriend to begin with. On the other hand, telling a woman that is like 80% IL into you, wants a fcking relationship with you, ready to sck you in public in your car, will not stop her from chasing your ass. At that point she might ask you why didn't you tel her that before and cry.
or that one he used a photo of some model saying it was his dead fiancee,