"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Lying about having a gf
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Who Dares Win
Master Don Juan
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If you are goodlooking its makes you even more attractive, if you look like a loser in her mind it will make you look even cheap as a person.
There are no tricks or short cuts when it comes SMV.
Depends on how attractive the girl is
Makes it harder. She won’t have sex with you if you have a gf.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Ahh. No. Hardened hoez in the game expect any attractive man to have at least one woman.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
backseatjuan
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To raise your SMV. It won't work, because she didn't see your girlfriend, maybe your girlfriend is uglier than her, it matters. So saying you have a girlfriend, would prevent you from fcking her, since she didn't see your girlfriend to begin with. On the other hand, telling a woman that is like 80% IL into you, wants a fcking relationship with you, ready to sck you in public in your car, will not stop her from chasing your ass. At that point she might ask you why didn't you tel her that before and cry.
or that one he used a photo of some model saying it was his dead fiancee,