"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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anyone know any good lower ab excesices (that u tried and worked) ??? if u do let me know thnx
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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There is an on-going argument over the legitimacy of 'lower abs'. It is said that the abs are one muscle group and there is no separation between the upper and lower portion. However if it makes you happier, any excercise that requires your legs to move towards your chest is generally considered a 'lower ab' exercise.

Use google or youtube. This isn't new.
 

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High rep (100, 10x10) front squats tear my abs apart.

Was doing them for quad growth, obviously, but I was ****ing amazed by how much my abs hurt after. Used 125 pounds for 10x10, the time I did this before with about 95 pounds I didn't get that though. Probably a weight issue.

That and the Full Contact Twist ****ing tore me apart.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M2VmDm58MMI
Fun exercise if you despise sit-ups.
 

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Sprints. Do something like 40m 60m 100m max. Full speed. I guarantee you'll be out of breath by the 3rd run and hurting the next day. Quads, abs (on the side too) and hamstrings at least.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Furyguy said:
High rep (100, 10x10) front squats tear my abs apart.

Was doing them for quad growth, obviously, but I was ****ing amazed by how much my abs hurt after. Used 125 pounds for 10x10, the time I did this before with about 95 pounds I didn't get that though. Probably a weight issue.

That and the Full Contact Twist ****ing tore me apart.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M2VmDm58MMI
Fun exercise if you despise sit-ups.
Definitely agree w/ the front squats working the abs, but I find they hit my upper arms and sides mostly. Nevertheless, they are an excellent ab/core stability exercise. Personally, I prefer heavy weight and low reps (100-110 kg x 3-5 reps) for 3 sets. This workout fries my abs.

I also find leg raises from various hanging or parallel bar positions help as well. If you want defined vascular lower abs you have to have low bodyfat, so that's where, diet, cardio and conditioning come in.
 

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Fuglydude said:
If you want defined vascular lower abs you have to have low bodyfat, so that's where, diet, cardio and conditioning come in.
The OP can't make up his mind. He wants to bulk, or he wants to cut as you have seen his previous threads. He's already an ectomorph and asking questions like 'hay guyz, how can i see my lwr abbbzzz'

He's not going anywhere with this. I can still see him in the same condition years from now doing bicep curls in the squat rack and crunches wondering why he's not ripped.
 
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