"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lump in Breast !!!

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Hey ...

I am dating a girl for almoist a month..and have gone physical except sex..as she is a virgin and so lots of fear..and insecurity. Yesterday, she looked puzzled and reported that she found a lump in her breast and would like to check it out and she suspected cancer and stuff...

We have a weekend outing planned..should I still take her out..she is willing to go...or should I not sleep with her..cause if I take her virginity then she will have the leverage and then I have to take care her problems..but since we like eachother so feel guilty to back out all of a sudden because of that...

Please help ME-who is torn between passion and responsilbility
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by ANIRBAN

Please help ME-who is torn between passion and responsilbility
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Even if you don't care about her that much, or at all, the right thing to do is make sure she sees a doctor about this ASAP.
 
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Although it's unusual for a young woman to have breast cancer, it is a possibility. Make her go to the Dr. It could just be a non-cancerous bump of some kind and will be totally harmless.
 
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Get her to a doctor ASAP. Of your trip dont try to get any, if she wants it, she will let you know. A lump is a scary thing for a woman. Dont have sex with her if you think its her having an emotional release after either finding out its cancer or just a lump.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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its probably just a cyst....no biggie. How old is she?
 
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Originally posted by The Vole
Tell her to go to the doctor you idiot.
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Lol
 
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